Alleykins
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I was expected to be self-sufficient and independent at a young age. Started using the city bus and riding all over town by myself at age 8. My mother, who raised five of us by herself while working a full time job, had expectations of us, like being where we were supposed to be and having to have our homework and chores done before we could do anything after school. She made it clear it was her way or the highway. My older sister took her up on that offer and moved out when she turned 16. I don't blame her, my mother had 3 built in housekeeper/babysitters and after a while, the effort wasn't worth having a roof over our heads, because that's about all my mother provided at times. She expected a lot from us without taking care of our basic needs. I left home at 17. Shortly after, my mum got this incredible job making beaucoup bucks, and bought a dishwasher. Go figure.