OneLostGrl
I'm going against the grain- I'm going sane
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I was referring primarily to the resistance of staying on their meds -as in this case and many others that have been recounted here.
I had a friend years ago whose brother was schizophrenic with violent tendancies. He was perfectly fine when taking his medications, but refused to stay on them. He had a loving family that was willing to take him in, but they were, rightfully, afraid of him when he wasn't medicated. As a result, they have been in an unending cycle for years where he is healthy and productive in a safe environment while on meds, stops taking them, goes missing, winds up homeless and then resurfaces later, only to begin it all again.
I get what you meant, and I'm saying it is hardly the "norm". Yes, there are cases but it isn't the norm for us "mental patients". Many, most, do not want to stay sick and do the work it takes to stay sane every day for the rest of their lives. Most "mental patients" have jobs, spouses, children and live successfully without ever having been a blip on anyones radar. Those with a mental illness are no more at risk of being violent than "normal people. We are more a danger to ourselves than to anyone else.
As for why people go off their meds.. there are all kinds of reasons..
Try living on Anti-psychotics.. on medication that takes away everything you once felt, were once able to accomplish, that makes you sleep all the time or not at all, unable to drive a car, or take care of your children. Take medication that messes with your cognitive processing, your memory, your ability to reason.. that slows down your central nervous system and known for it's addictive qualities (Which is really not very good or safe, as those with mental illness have a higher than normal rate of addiction issues).
Take medication- for the rest of your life that leaves you unable to perform sexually, can cause diabetes, liver and pancreas problems, weight gain, seizures, anxiety, agitation, suicidal ideations, even psychosis. Live with the other health issues you have that you cannot take medication for because they don't mix with whatever psychotropic medication you may be taking. Take a medication that makes you piss the bed or see double or shake and drool.. and stay on it, try to deal with each symptom for the rest of your life. Then perhaps you could understand why some choose to discontinue their medication.