Maybe. But I would assume she would have swelling, pain, and mobility issues. Who knows. I just don't believe he was clueless.
I do think you have a good point that people were more likely to believe her since she was a nurse.
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If I have to play devils advocate for WM I would say it looked something like Sini calling and said she had to bring Sherin to the hospital because she was pushed off the couch, sibling rivalry. He likely rushed to the hospital for that because first injury, new to them baby, and all of that.
The Dr couldn't refute this at this time and the parents seem concerned, plus Sini was an employee and possible coworker at this location, so professional courtesy. No one mentioned that it seemed awkward. Plus, their other daughter (to our knowledge) was never injured in Sini's care, so it can be rationalized.
Then when other things occur he believes accident and wonders how bad, doesn't necessarily go in unless it's going to be awhile, plus, someone has to stay with older sister if they are only going to be a few hours. Sini comes home and says "they said she has a vit deficiency and weak bones because of the orphanage not feeding her properly."
Soon enough Sherin is having "feeding problems" was this milk filled with pain meds to stop her from crying? OTC drugs in food taste horrible, but if milk was the only thing offered to her and Sini was the one making the bottle/cup, then WM may not have ever considered the milk wasn't just milk, OR she may have told him that the stuff she was putting in it was to help strengthen her bones, vitamins that they can't get her to chew or swallow, extra calories like a shake... plenty of possible excuses.
Then she brings Sherin in for the possible infection, knowing that it needs treated and can't be ignored. She didn't expect them to do full xrays or to find all these other injuries in various stages of healing. She goes home with Sherin, he asks what took so long and she "cries" and says they think that they are abusing Sherin and then she makes the call to the dr who said that she can't take the call to CPS back. This is the first WM has heard of possible abuse and CPS comes knocking and he honestly doesn't know how those injuries occurred, except for what he was told.
CPS can't figure things out for whatever reason, and they likely say that they HAVE TO bring Sherin to all appointments and that if there is anything else they will take the children. Sini behaves herself and Sherin doesn't have anymore BAD injuries for a few months, so she then asks if they can go to their local GP instead of having to travel to Dallas to see the new Dr regularly. This prompts the Dr's July phone call to CPS and as new abuse wasn't noted so they accept it and more or less officially drop the ball.
Sini continues to behave until the final blow is struck. WM can't believe what the heck has happened and feels like everything is all his fault. How did he not see this? How did he not listen to CPS? How did he not believe the Dr? He remembers that CPS said anymore signs of abuse and they would have to take the kids and he goes into survival mode and allows Sherin to die and then hides her to try and "protect" his family...
I have no clue if this is HOW it happened, but I know many dads (including my own) who NEVER go to dr's appointments or the hospital unless it is something quite serious. My mom did it because she was a sahm and I did it with my kids because I am a sahm. It is generally up to US to report to the rest of the family, what the Dr said or did and what treatment is required, and then we generally administer any medications etc. It is easier for the person who stays home most of the time, to do the medications and such, simply because there is no confusion as to when things were done.
I am NOT saying WM is innocent or he didn't know at all. BUT if he flips, I imagine his story will be a strong plea of ignorance to the abuse until it was too late, followed with this deep need to protect his other daughter... This, could also be the reason he demanded to be in court AND set court back TWICE and after the first court date went and turned himself in,again, with the story that he knew would get Sini arrested and away from their other child. I don't think he realized he could be risking termination of his rights but i do think he was acting to protect older daughter and "sacrificed" his own freedom (and a large sum of money) to make sure CPS didn't give their other child back to Sini....
JMThoughts on what COULD happen, NOT what I believe actually happened!!