So could it be she was desperate for love? Or to find a loving partner? I had a couple of friends who are really lovely women but were desperate for a loving long standing partner when younger and used to sleep with whoever they met on first day (which didn't happen frequently) and always the men got what was on offer for a period of time then and moved on after a while. Both remained single women all their lives to this date. Yet all they wanted was love. I know a third one who was also desperate for same thing and would sleep with anyone interested and one took advantage and pretended to love her and strung her along. Also there were men from another community you wouldn't expect her to mix with (ie like its suggested with Claudia) and that brought trouble and strife with two wives both visiting her house bringing young people (teenage children?) with them to intimidate her to stop and leave their men alone. I know many women don't chose to behave like this do this but its clear I have known a few who have and in my opinion they were all lovely women who just wanted permanent love. Is that all that Claudia wanted I wonder? JMO. EDIT: I've just realised. All the women I've referred to above were fun loving, partying, loving a laugh women.
I think every woman wants to be loved. But if we look more closely at Claudia's relationship history at the age of 20 she entered into a relationship/affair with Irishman Paddy McGinty a Mail on Sunday article June 2009 reports they were together for 10 years
Builder Paddy McGinty, 46, met Miss Lawrence when she was 20 years old and was with her for 10 years.
He goes on to say in that 2009 article that they broke up about 5 years before so that puts her at about age 30 yrs
After the break up she moved to Heworth Road.
Where much has been made of the number of sexual relationships she had when she lived at Heworth Road I would be interested to know how she conducted herself whilst in the relationship with Paddy because she was clearly emotionally invested in it and was said to have taken the break up quite badly.
So now you have a young woman of 30 to all intense and purposes single again. 10 years of commitment on her part seeing her friends settle down and start a families and she's left with little more than memories and a broken heart.
A job and house move was probably a sensible move for her. The move put her a few doors down from the local pub with an already established group of regulars being a newcomer for this reason she obviously attracted some attention. As female friendships cemented with SC and JK its no great surprise she spent some of her socialising there.
Unfortunately as with some of the socialising drinks flowed which affects people differently some people more relaxed some a pain in the *advertiser censored* some become aggressive some get flirty and a bit touchy feely. Its no surprise liasons/relationships happen and they probably happen with people you wouldnt necessarily have an attraction too. Its quite simply because they are there.
Paddy Mcginty also said in the article she was vulnerable when she had had a drink.
We know she had a relationship with her boyfriend Dan for about 18 months (correct me if Im wrong) but the relationship ended due to the travelling distance. I dont know if she was faithful to Dan and it would be wrong of me to surmise but surely what we must consider here is that theres a very small window of time for all these other alledged relationships to have occurred.
Certainly we are told by SC JK her parents sisters and other people that knew her that she wasnt the maneater she had been made out to be in the press, and to my knowledge no one has come forward from her past life (before she moved to Heworth rd) saying anything different.
I have always said I like to keep an open mind when looking at this case and through everything thats thrown into the mix about Claudia and her love life I am asking myself who really were these people making these allegations about her love life. As for Ray Galloways comments .. well who knows where all that came from was he trying to flush out more information based on gossip he had heard from someone. Or could it be like some of the other elemnents in the case this particular subject wasn't investigated thoroughly enough and it had had been may well have been found to be groundless.
A rumour here a piece of gossip there and before you know it its blown.. Its a runaway train and theres no stopping it.
I continue to look at every aspect of Claudias life and through all is that out there if you take a measured approach and not get on that runaway train. She was just an ordinary young woman with a similar life to most other young women we know.
Unfortunately her choice of the NH as a social hub was prob not a good move for someone recovering from a break up but it was her choice.
I my opinion her story suffers because of the shenanigans of certain people that frequented the NH.
But for all that in my opinion her disappearance is not connected to the NH crowd