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Thank you for all the updates and insights. It's so sad that a beautiful soul has gone and the world has been left with that godawful goondick.
I'm not convinced that greed was entirely his motive, I have a niggling feeling that it was to do with them both being widowed but it was Helen who seemingly was getting both attention and rewarded for her grief whereas he wasn't getting anywhere near as much and yet he was grieving AND sickly. I think the catalyst was him getting the 'all clear' as he could no longer trump that special attention he craved.
Helen had such a wonderful way with words, she was warm and engaging and she was attentive and affectionate towards her followers, all things that came naturally to her yet appear to be alien to IS. Helen said herself that reliving her husbands death and reflecting on their marriage for the launch of her book (around October 2015?) was traumatic and painful and no doubt she will have received a heck of a lot of support over this. I think that living with Helen whilst she was researching, writing and promoting her book will have opened wounds for IS yet he felt left out and possibly pushed out as he was unable to gain the kind of supportive attention Helen was getting. From what i've heard of his performance in court he paints himself to be a weak man who gets pushed about and thumped, I don't think he was ever emotionally strong enough to support himself never mind Helen as well. I also think he enjoyed the attention he got when he was supposed to have cancer and that this in turn gave him an 'excuse' to be weak and keep the focus on his wants and needs, when the growth turned out to be nothing sinister his trump card had gone.
I can't help but wonder that if IS could have articulated his feelings effectively that Helen would have bent over backwards to make him happy. I get the impression that she overlooked his inadequacies and saw him as her saviour, he simply made her happy and for that she adored him. I don't know if he's a psychopath, a sociopath or a footpath but he's an absolute idiot and if this week is an example of how his mind works then he's clearly bonkers too.
It's none of my business but I really want to know why he did it, why he killed such a kind hearted lady and her lovely innocent dog. I've never followed a case before so I don't know, but do you think we'll ever find out, if not from him from someone else who may have an idea?
Thank you for an excellent and inciteful post. I think you have described very well IS's weakness and need for attention.
In my experience, with characters like IS, he will never ever admit to this and so we will never find out why, from him. He will probably launch a series of appeals.