ColourPurple
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it may be that she felt resentful that she couldn't flee the nest so to speak. If her parents were upset at her simply moving from Hereford to Chester, then New Zealand would be a definite no. As an only child it must be difficult if you want to travel overseas. I have travelled extensively and lived abroad for many years but luckily I have a sibling so didn't feel too guilty about it. However, in the end, I came back as most people do, because of elderly parents.
Full disclosure too: I am VERY close to my parents, as in speak to them every single day, go out to the pub with them, sleep round their houses still close lol and not an only child so the relationship may be different but she seems very very close to hers. Being so upset about moving away, crying over Christmas etc. But again this might be totally normal to some people and I might be the weirdo for thinking it's weird!
I remember LL's parents, particularly her father were older parents so with that and her being an only child she probably had to consider the impact her actions and deciisions about where to live would have on them, more than the average person her age. I know with the mention of at least one baby being an IVF baby that the parents had waited a long time for, there was speculation on here in the past about whether, if guilty, LL had allegedly targeted the babies of older parents.*
If guilty, it appears she was thinking and talking about families and planning to spend Xmas with her own parents... whilst at the same time allegedly plotting to ensure that some parents never got to spend a single Xmas with their babies.
*ETA I tend to think, if guilty, LL just chose babies whose deaths she thought would have the biggest most dramatic impact, as if she were writing her own script for a hospital docu-soap - a baby the parents had waited years for, a baby whose 100 day birthday it was, a baby whose due date it was, sets of twins and triplets where it would be even more tragic if the parents lost both or all three of their babies.
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