I did not perceive the reaction of the family members to be "horrified" at the verdict. I took it to be a release of a huge flood of long pent-up emotions. Hey, women cry. And these women cried. Wracking, shaking sobs. And I don't blame them a bit! I'd have done the same.
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I notice you quoted me there. I have not been able to follow this case much and did not know many of the players before watching the verdict. Always wanted to catch up but couldn't.
However, I have watched many jury verdicts and the reactions of the supporters and victims.
This confused me. I knew his daughters had testified against him and I thought they would be present but these did not seem like relieved women to me. I've never seen victim families act like this. The one woman, who apparently is Michele's sister, looked totally shocked and incredulous. She mouthed the words, with an open-mouthed astonished yet upset look, " I can't believe it." The rest just looked wracked with grief.
Clearly, they were not MM supporters. So I understand they were not actually "horrified" by the verdict. But as an outsider not familiar with the players, but familiar with jury verdict reactions, it looked that way to me and so I wanted to know who they were and later, I wanted to know why they had that reaction.
Two posters gave pretty good explanations. One was that the verdict confirmed what they had been saying and suspected and testified about and even knew. But having a jury agree made the horrible truth a reality. Another said they must have been very shocked because they are used to having MM get away with things and win.
Let me add to that. The little I knew about the trial had me very concerned. It was clear to me quickly that the man killed his wife but when I heard about the coroner reports and the various expert opinions as to Micheles death, along with the crucial evidence the judge exclude from trial, I felt it could be very hard to get a verdict. I think that the prosecution may have felt that way too and Communicated the difficulty to the family. It's what I would have done, as an attorney.
I think this was a hard won verdict and the family knew it and couldn't believe he was found guilty. I do think they experienced shock. It must have been a ridiculously long and agonizing road for them. Not only did they lose mom/sister, they lost their beautiful brother/nephew and had to come to the shocking and incomprehensible realization that the father they loved did it or caused it all.
From my experience, being involved in the investigation and trial kept them going and occupied- hanging on by tenterhooks to fight for justice for their mama and brother. Now the major part of that fight is over and they are left with nothing to distract them from the horror that became their
lives. Now they are left with the unending grief and those two empty chairs and the awful truth of why that is their reality.
I think trials, while excruciating, also sometimes allow victims to survive because their whole being is concentrating on the fight rather than the horror and grief. Once it's over, reality can be tough to handle because there is nothing left but that.
So I think this family had a unique reaction but understandable, that was a combination of factors- shock that MM didn't get away with it (and yes, relief), the instant comprehension that everything that they knew was really true, and the horror of that reality.
It's been awhile since we've seen a couple as evil as MM and his mistress, so easily hiding their true natures, while creating such a phenomenal scope of devastation in their wakes. Nothing can make up for what they have done. I hope these ladies will be able to survive it all and find even a little peace. I cannot imagine the depth of their pain. It's unimaginable.