That is not unusual in the South. Everyone not on the family list, is asked to leave the room where the receiving line is. The family on the list is left alone with the officiant and funeral home director(s) while prayers are said, people say personal things, then the casket is closed. Then the family comes into the room where the services are, the casket is brought in and the service starts.
I know they say that hindsight is 20/20, but since this case started, it's seemed obvious that those in little Noah's community "knew" something was amiss in his home............the posts stating little Noah seemed to take more quickly to men than women, his Mom not being a friendly neighbor, the parents being known to "keep to themselves", etc. And from reading the many comments online (comments to news articles, on the Missing FB page), it seems it was no 'secret' that little Noah didn't have a great home life, members of the community believing his parents were into drugs, the rumors about them giving him heroin, ............I guess what I'm saying is........it kind of frustrates me that it seems fair to say that those around him knew that things weren't good in his home life, so did anyone ever call LE to report suspicions or concerns? It's always so sad and frustrating to me when a sweet little child dies directly/indirectly due to abuse and then everyone comes out of the woodwork to claim they saw 'signs' that something was amiss, the rumors about the parents come up, etc. It makes me want to scream "why did it take the death of this child for you to NOW come forward and share your concerns/suspicions?!!!
If wonder if the $5000 reward was a ploy to attract someone else LE suspected of knowing about what happened to Noah to come forward with the info and the parents got scared and told? $5000 buys a lot of drugs. JMO
Oh I know that - I'm from the south and unfortunately have attended way too many services. My point was that this is a couple that had their daughter taken away and a day after the services, they were both arrested for abuse and neglect of their children, one of whom was laying in the casket. Surely LE knew about the charges that were about to be brought the next day. I just found it odd for this particular scenario unless there was a purpose we don't know about. JMO
Remember on the Monday - the day after Noah disappeared - it was reported that the parents were going to speak to the media, then it got "postponed". Wonder what happened to stop that, and keep them completely silent and away from the media, from that point on? I wonder how much did LE know/suspect at that point. Still confused as to why the septic tank wasn't emptied at that point though. Especially as that seems to be the day that the baby girl was taken from them as well. Lots of activity that Monday looking back now.
they harmed their own little boy and disposed of him in that manner?? just when you think it can't get any worst.
With Dad at work that gave an alibi of sorts. I read a comment way back where someone asked if Dad had a DL, possible he didn't. I wonder if it was normal for her to take Dad to work. With Dad being charged with offense date the day missing wonder if he really did go to work? ( wk documentation) If charged Mom too, why diff date? Possible they had him under suspension from get go. The 2 dates puzzle me.Noah's mum was the one to put herself in the line of suspicion by claiming she was asleep for the 3 hour window he apparently disappeared. Her story puts her as the last one to see him alive - which immediately places that person as a suspect, even if they are innocent.
If Noah had died the day before and it had been nothing to do with her, would she really risk being the one who suspicion fell on? Why not say the entire family had woken up that Sunday morning, and discovered Noah had gone?
The story they went with put dad in the clear, as he was apparently at work. Is that because he didn't want to get the blame for something she did? Or were they trying to get seen on cctv to back up their story? I find it hard to believe they had that 'clever' a plan (for want of a better word) as the disposal of Noah suggests either panic or sheer stupidity in relation to it being at home. They clearly didn't even try to stage it as an accident, as surely LE would have checked out the tank earlier if the lid had been made to look like a child had opened it. They had a car, so why put Noah where they did? I wonder if something happened much nearer to the morning than the night before, so time was limited if Dad had to get to work (to get an alibi).
I think some of the close family, are quite familiar with Ashley and Paul's lifestyle. Should they have done something? Yes! But I don't think they were in any better lifestyle.
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I'm sorry you were offended. I know there are plenty of nice people in the area but where there is severe economic depression there is a lot more poverty which breeds every social problem there is. Meth and opiates are a huge problem all over Roanokes surrounding areas Bc of this. Just sayin'
With Dad at work that gave an alibi of sorts. I read a comment way back where someone asked if Dad had a DL, possible he didn't. I wonder if it was normal for her to take Dad to work. With Dad being charged with offense date the day missing wonder if he really did go to work? ( wk documentation) If charged Mom too, why diff date? Possible they had him under suspension from get go. The 2 dates puzzle me.