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From these Tweets and a now unavailable article from The Globe & Mail, I got the distinct impression that TLM listed MTR as her "boyfriend" only so that he would be able to visit her in the detention centre.
Unavailable? Surely a cache is available. No worries. The LFP story I will post below touches on their relationship.
TLM may have been hoping that he'd become her boyfriend, but I don't believe that either of them actually believed that he already was.
According to her testimony, they only had sex three times during the two months or so they were together. That doesn't sound to me like a serious relationship.
Who said anything about a serious relationship? They were seeing each other. I think that has been established already. Sex isn't a barometer of how serious a relationship is. Some people might do it 100 times in a month and don't consider themselves in a serious relationship. Some people might not do it at all, and consider themselves boyfriend and girlfriend. Besides, she didn't even call him back after the first night, and he came looking for her. Why do that if he's not that into her??
We also know that he was in contact with many other women during that period. How could this have escaped her attention, unless she didn't see him very often?
According to the testimony, MR was on the phone a lot when he met with these other women. Maybe he was on the phone a lot when he was with TLM. He LIED to the other women as to the reason he was on the phone (changing dance times, construction work, etc). Maybe he told TLM he was talking to his colon cancer doctor. Maybe she didn't care. Who knows.
I also believe that MTR didn't lie during his interview with LE when he laughed and denied that TLM was his girlfriend.
He lied about a lot of things in that interview. If there is a magic 8 ball website that tells us what was true and what was not, I don't know about it. Anyone have the link? none of us can know what he told the truth about.
Seems obvious to me that a sexual encounter or three did not equal a BF/GF relationship in his mind. Was he using her for drugs and a bit of sex? More than likely. Did she hope it would become more than that? Probably. But I don't believe even she was delusional enough to think that they were in a romantic relationship.
TLM's thoughts on the relationship with MR are available in the tweets and testimony. She told a worker at the detention centre he was her boyfriend, and as someone just posted above me, she knew they weren't exclusive. Seems pretty clear to me.
I think it's entirely possible that MTR was helping her out by driving her around for household errands (and to pick up drugs, I suppose), maybe even trying to do a Henry Higgins to her Eliza Doolittle. I believe he did enlist his mother to give CM furniture and that he agreed to look after CM while TLM was in jail. He considered TLM a "friend" of sorts (with a few benefits), which is what he told LE on the 15th and to a few other people who have testified and may still testify.
LOL. I can't imagine a 28 year old junkie would get the reference, but it's possible that he told TLM he would help Carol in order to keep TLM quiet about his involvement. There is no evidence that he would do things like that out of the goodness of his heart.
It's also feasible to me that TLM tried to cement this relationship by offering up Tori to him as "a gift" and he refused. :moo:
Well, that's Derstine's Hail Mary. He tried to throw that to the wall to see if it would stick during his cross of TLM. Didn't work, IMO. I have yet to see a smidgen of evidence or testimony to support this dubious claim, regardless of how many times it's repeated here.
JMO