But I don't think the victims made any mistakes. Their door was locked (we know this because it was kicked in). Jayme did nothing to bring this on herself. Speculation that she was approached online is simply that, speculation. I think it is human nature for some people to blame the victim so that they can say this won't happen to me because I would never make that mistake.
Please stop blaming the victims.
SABBM
I think you have a compassionate heart, singlemom.
Re. the first bolded bit : Respectfully--
no one knows that, and LE have not said that. Which is concerning.
At this time, Jayme is a victim and must be considered as such .
It is entirely possible to bring disaster on your self and/or family by befriending the wrong person, or an online friend who turns out to be a monster.
LE have stated that Jayme is not a suspect and that is all.
Part of their body language and what LE are NOT saying makes us think they know very little, which is sad. I don't want to see this case grow cold !
Re. the second bolded bit :
No one is blaming the victims here at WS.
This is the most victim-friendly forum online !
We don't know at this point if Jayme did or said anything to unintentionally bring disaster to her home.
Not blaming her if she did-- since LE have said she is not a suspect or person of interest.
No one on this forum has blamed any of the Closs family.
It is entirely possible (since LE have
not stated this
didn't happen) that Jayme was victimized by an online'friend' or 'bf'. Or even by a relative or family 'friend' . We don't know anything about the nature of the perp.
But it pays to be careful ; and to let other young people know how cautious they need to be.
Kids can make honest mistakes and not understand the dangers of not letting their parents know about a secret friend or a relative that makes them uneasy.
If someone approaches a teen online or at a family gathering-- that is not "blaming the victim". A
nything a predator says or does is entirely on them and not the young person.
The same dangers existed decades ago and only now are being brought to light.
It's a sad world , and children and teens need to be aware of their surroundings and whom they communicate with.