To Laura's family:
My utmost condolences to you and everyone else who loved Laura. I'm so, so sorry this happened and that the police didn't take you seriously. I'm sorry it had to take
this for that sick person to be taken down.
Please don't blame yourselves or entertain the ''what ifs''. This was not your fault and there is nothing to feel guilty for. You looked for her when nobody else did, and you did the best you could.
Laura was irreplaceable and it's a loss that you may never be able to ''get over''. The death of a loved one - particularly when it's due to violence - is something that
can't be ''gotten over''. It's going to be a long and hard process, especially for her kids.
But I hope it will bring you some comfort to know that you helped catch this monster, and that you've undoubtedly saved the lives of other women who would've otherwise met - and become the victims of - Steven Zelich. He won't be doing this to anyone else. And we have beautiful people like you (Laura's family) and AstroKitty to thank for that.
Here are some forums that may help you:
Grief Healing Discussion Group
Grief Support Forum
And, if you EVER feel suicidal, please call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You'll be connected with a crisis worker who'll help you get through it. The line is toll-free and available 24/7.
Rest in peace, Laura.