justthinkin
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I'm probably going to get clobbered, but GA has had it in for NS, and I think it was her intent for AIW to go there & find fault with NS. Probably even more so since GA was at the home the evening the first two babies were brought home. NS found out she was there, had one of the nannies call the cops on her to make her wait outside. GA wasn't allowed in.
OTOH, AIW got ousted because one of their nurses was stupid with a capital S in filling a report so soon before AIW collected enough solid goods on NS so CFS would have no choice but to remove the children from the home.
Yes, there were reporters there when NS brought home the first babies. NS needs the money to help pay to support the babies. I can't fault her for that, but letting too many children and adults get in the babies faces and touch them, yup definite fault on NS's part.
As for the GM not wanting anything to do with the new babies, I can understand that. I'm sure she thinks they will ultimately be taken from NS.
Back to NS. She does things to make everyone else suffer because that's what narcissists do. She's been making her parents suffer for years. I think she picked out a 2 story house so that those having to care for the children would be having to climb stairs a zillion times a day. She got one with a too small yard so the children would have no real place to play. She insists on exposing the premies to all kinds of germs by having 8-10 kids from the neighborhood in the house playing in addition to her own. That would drive everyone else nuts.
Gotta keep in mind that a narcissist isn't emotionally invested so the things that would drive a sane person nuts, doesn't bother her.
Sure Dr. Phil is going to try to smooth things over between NS and AIW. He's backed NS, but for reasons of protecting her children. Without AIW in the home, anything can happen, and we'll all hear about it when it's too late.
That's scary. These children have to have an advocate who can track what's going on.
He may be buying time though for CFS to get their ducks in a row. I think that's a possibility.
OTOH, AIW got ousted because one of their nurses was stupid with a capital S in filling a report so soon before AIW collected enough solid goods on NS so CFS would have no choice but to remove the children from the home.
Yes, there were reporters there when NS brought home the first babies. NS needs the money to help pay to support the babies. I can't fault her for that, but letting too many children and adults get in the babies faces and touch them, yup definite fault on NS's part.
As for the GM not wanting anything to do with the new babies, I can understand that. I'm sure she thinks they will ultimately be taken from NS.
Back to NS. She does things to make everyone else suffer because that's what narcissists do. She's been making her parents suffer for years. I think she picked out a 2 story house so that those having to care for the children would be having to climb stairs a zillion times a day. She got one with a too small yard so the children would have no real place to play. She insists on exposing the premies to all kinds of germs by having 8-10 kids from the neighborhood in the house playing in addition to her own. That would drive everyone else nuts.
Gotta keep in mind that a narcissist isn't emotionally invested so the things that would drive a sane person nuts, doesn't bother her.
Sure Dr. Phil is going to try to smooth things over between NS and AIW. He's backed NS, but for reasons of protecting her children. Without AIW in the home, anything can happen, and we'll all hear about it when it's too late.
That's scary. These children have to have an advocate who can track what's going on.
He may be buying time though for CFS to get their ducks in a row. I think that's a possibility.