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^^ The above comment is irrelevant with regard to Dina, Nina, and Adam defending themselves against allegations that they murdered Rebecca. More distraction and deflection.
However, I have some musing on the above comment.
Only Jonah and Rebecca knew the depths of love and commitment they had for each other. But what is obvious is how they lived their lives together, the exciting and the mundane parts, as a committed couple, and what their friends and family have said about how happy they were most of the time. Rebecca had concerns about Jonah's 2 teenagers being very rude and disrespectful to her, which she shared with her sister. Many teens are rude and disrespectful to a parent's new partner. And Rebecca expressed a lot of concern about how rude and nasty Dina treated her. Many ex-spouses are rude and nasty to the new partner of their ex, particularly when there is shared custody of a child. That's simply reality in "blended families." Manipulative and nasty behavior on the part of the bitter ex-spouse is pretty common, IMO.
Sometimes "rude and nasty" behavior progresses to a strong compulsion, a vendetta, with vindictive behavior. Which is what I think we have all observed here. It didn't matter whether or not Jonah and Rebecca were "soul mates" or just "friends with benefits", IMO-- Dina hated Rebecca just the same. There was nothing Rebecca could do, or not do, to mitigate Dina's hate for her, IMO. I personally think Dina hates Jonah just as fiercely as she still hates Rebecca (dead in her grave in the "hot pink casket"), but Jonah is her meal ticket, and she has to modulate her public behavior and criticism of him due to the divorce conditions, IMO. So she misplaces all that anger and hate onto Rebecca, a convenient target, IMO. (And now that Rebecca is dead, that anger and hate is displaced again onto XZ and the entire Zahau family. That's beyond obvious from her court filings, IMO.)
A story as old as time-- "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
What I wonder, is if Dina had it all to do over again, would she treat Rebecca more kindly, for the sake of her son, Max, and Max's father, Jonah? Does Dina have any regrets for what she has done? For how abominably she has behaved? For all the horrible things she has said? Does she have any conscience, or not? I wonder. She seems like she would score high on Hare's psychopathy checklist. Here's an overview.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy_Checklist
However, I have some musing on the above comment.
Only Jonah and Rebecca knew the depths of love and commitment they had for each other. But what is obvious is how they lived their lives together, the exciting and the mundane parts, as a committed couple, and what their friends and family have said about how happy they were most of the time. Rebecca had concerns about Jonah's 2 teenagers being very rude and disrespectful to her, which she shared with her sister. Many teens are rude and disrespectful to a parent's new partner. And Rebecca expressed a lot of concern about how rude and nasty Dina treated her. Many ex-spouses are rude and nasty to the new partner of their ex, particularly when there is shared custody of a child. That's simply reality in "blended families." Manipulative and nasty behavior on the part of the bitter ex-spouse is pretty common, IMO.
Sometimes "rude and nasty" behavior progresses to a strong compulsion, a vendetta, with vindictive behavior. Which is what I think we have all observed here. It didn't matter whether or not Jonah and Rebecca were "soul mates" or just "friends with benefits", IMO-- Dina hated Rebecca just the same. There was nothing Rebecca could do, or not do, to mitigate Dina's hate for her, IMO. I personally think Dina hates Jonah just as fiercely as she still hates Rebecca (dead in her grave in the "hot pink casket"), but Jonah is her meal ticket, and she has to modulate her public behavior and criticism of him due to the divorce conditions, IMO. So she misplaces all that anger and hate onto Rebecca, a convenient target, IMO. (And now that Rebecca is dead, that anger and hate is displaced again onto XZ and the entire Zahau family. That's beyond obvious from her court filings, IMO.)
A story as old as time-- "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned."
What I wonder, is if Dina had it all to do over again, would she treat Rebecca more kindly, for the sake of her son, Max, and Max's father, Jonah? Does Dina have any regrets for what she has done? For how abominably she has behaved? For all the horrible things she has said? Does she have any conscience, or not? I wonder. She seems like she would score high on Hare's psychopathy checklist. Here's an overview.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychopathy_Checklist