Coquette
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Often people relate things to situations they know instead of the situation at hand.
Otherwise known as projection.
Often people relate things to situations they know instead of the situation at hand.
No one has an excuse to grab another human being by the face. That is pure degrading aggression. He could have pushed her back with a hand on each shoulder. Sounds like he was used to using barred holds.Wait, he grabbed her face and pushed her. Does that not count as physical assault? He left marks on her face, according to one of the officers.
Clean AND wearing bone-white shorts in the desert.Gabby appeared to be clean.
Do murderers ever make sense?I have to ask myself the question...why would a guy who has recently been stopped by the police for battling with his girlfriend risk murdering her shortly after? Surely, he knew there was a full hour of body cam evidence available. Doesn't make sense.
People report accidents, call for help.In regards to the video ONLY:
Brian appeared genuinely concerned about Gabby. He did not want her to be arrested. He offered to go to jail in her stead.He indicated that Gabby gets upset on occasion and he attempts to take some space for things to calm down. I got the impression he was accepting of her mental health struggles, whatever they may be.
I speculate that no matter how accustomed that they both may be to these his/hers mental health issues that neither of them are accustomed to/comfortable with being involved with the police. I assume that scared them both and neither would want to actually be arrested and taken to jail.The incident is likely something that both of them did not want to repeat.
Patterns:
It is possible that some things we saw on the video are repeated behaviors. As a mental health professional, I wondered if Gabby had some borderline personality traits (frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment - for one). Perhaps Gabby behaves like that with Brian when she is stressed. Perhaps he often recommends taking space which could furtherer trigger someone with borderline traits. Maybe she always freaks a bit and tries to grab Brian or just touches him somehow...Maybe he tends to push her away when that happens.
People die on trails from time to time. They slip even without being pushed away...
It allows - for example - content streams of US programming to be accessed while in Canada. Netflix comes to mind as an example. I’m not a VPN or Netflix expert, but one can “fool” the service into thinking you are somewhere that you are not. The same is true for sports broadcast streams. One can access the Longhorn Network in the northeast where it is not generally available by “pretending” to be in Texas.I don’t have an answer but I am curious as to the reasons behind VPN’s being commonly used by those in the van life scene? I’ve never heard that before.
sure, a lot of murder have logic to them. Not so much morals but logic.Do murderers ever make sense?
I can tell from the tiny thumbnail it's not hernot sure if this is allowed, if not, let me know and I’ll delete.
I think that this is the photo they are referring to - I don’t think it’s her, but neither arm’s tattoo placements are visible.
Wait, she is missing so I would call that a victim.
If BL were my son, he wouldn't be welcome in our home at this point. We will always love our kids no matter what they do, but never cover for them. I speak from personal experience, though it wasn't a felony or murder. Difficult situation nonetheless.That would be a first in my experience. Most people don’t turn an innocent thing like that, into what is likely, a multi state homicide investigation.
Her phone is inactive, she’s without a vehicle, he left her thousands of miles away, lawyered up, shut down, and is the focus of national scorn.
He could end all that in a second, yet days have passed and he continues to ignore the pleas of a desperate family.
I couldn’t disagree more with this theory.
How do you know that about the six hours on the wifi?
People really can’t imagine the red dirt until they experience it. LOL. You find that stuff everywhere for weeks!1) it’s really dry here
2) when you walk you kick up dust everywhere
3) it’s all over and takes more than a second wipe of bottom feet to clean yourself
4) thanks for the snark but i don’t need it
"Gabby is a missing person, not a victim."Please remember. Gabby is a missing person, not a victim.
Also, remember the definition of the term "manic" - A manic episode is characterized by a sustained period of abnormally elevated or irritable mood, intense energy, racing thoughts, and other extreme and exaggerated behaviors. People can also experience psychosis, including hallucinations and delusions, which indicate a separation from reality.
Anyone keeping company with a person having a history of this behavior understands the complexity of it and would not characterize that person as "crazy".
I replied to a similar question, many threads ago. My BF is retired police chief. He said that driving, or being in possession of a vehicle not registered to the current driver is not evidence of a crime, unless said vehicle has been registered as stolen.I just joined and had a question about this case. Is there a person on here that I can ask the question. I am new and not used to this format.
Gabby appeared to be clean.
I replied to a similar question, many threads ago. My BF is retired police chief. He said that driving, or being in possession of a vehicle not registered to the current driver is not evidence of a crime, unless said vehicle has been registered as stolen.
I do understand that but if the person who owns the vehicle is missing? How can a missing woman file a report?I replied to a similar question, many threads ago. My BF is retired police chief. He said that driving, or being in possession of a vehicle not registered to the current driver is not evidence of a crime, unless said vehicle has been registered as stolen.
I am not sure I would put a lot of faith in that.
Cell coverage depends on many things......one being your phone and your provider....and other things I cant even understand.
I live in a populated area with allegedly amazing service.......but I can go 5 min from my house and have 1 bar, then another 5 min and have full bars. My daughter can be next to me and have full bars on the exact same phone that I have and I have no service at all.
My first floor of my house - perfect cell coverage (not using wifi). My second floor - no cell coverage - I have to use wifi. What the hell? lol
Then I have gone up to over 14,000 feet elevation on top of Mount Evans here in Colorado and had the BEST cell coverage ever.
The FB group for my town has discussion after discussion about cell coverage and who is the best provider and about why do some areas of town not work for some providers and work for other providers, while they all use the same towers.
I mean, making sense of cell service....is like some insane mathematical equation that nobody can make sense of... move over Good Will Hunting.
JMO based on my own experiences and experiments. lol