LambChop
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They have many fears. One of my AA friends lives in a small town in Texas - Lubbock. He's 6'3" and a hot mess. While he was going to medical school 20 years ago, he worked at night. After work he would jog through his nice, mostly white neighborhood - many nights cop cars would pass by him slowly, then take another pass. He got stopped all the time because he drove a nice car. When he would stop by Walmart at midnight on the way home, he could feel people watching him and he'd mess with them, acting sketchy - it's what they expected. He would walk by cars in a parking lot at night and hear door locks engaging. When we'd go out together people would stare and smile as if they were ok with it - once when we went to see Les Miserables in Houston, three white guys walked behind us making comments about (racial slur) and white girls. Saddest to me was the time I introduced him to one of my friends - she asked what he did for a living, he said he was in medical school and her first reaction was to laugh, and then caught herself. Other people would always feel like the stupid thing to say would be, "I have a lot of black friends". He'd say, "yeah? What are their names?" hahaha - stumped 1/2 of them.
Another good friend is high up in the space program (was), he called me once while driving in Houston - he had a convertible something - he said the cool thing about the convertible is when he decided to act like the crazy (slur) speeding down the road, people got out of the way because they thought he had a gun, of course he was kidding, but he could. He was stopped a lot. Once, he was put up against the back of his car with two cops telling him they knew he was lying about where he had just been - there'd been a robbery close by - they detained him for two hours - even after telling them who he was. Sadly, he and my other friend were used to it and hardly worth mentioning at the end of the day.
You know what both of them agree upon when it comes to racism? They're way more comfortable with the outspoken, honest racist. They know exactly where they stand. They have both said it's the racists who act like they're not racist, that scare them. AA's instinctively know the difference.
Both agree a racist would do just what GZ is being accused of in the media - and a 17 yr. old whose been told all his life the white man is not to be trusted, would do just what Zimmerman said Trayvon did.
IMO, one only has to turn on the television in the past three weeks to see nothing has changed - white and AA children are still being told why they should fear each other. This case is the perfect storm.
But GZ had a choice and did not have to contribute to it. He should have let LE do their job. Take the "black" out of the equation and he's a kid with a hoodie and the end result was the same. GZ should have waited for LE. jmo