2010.06.28 - Kyron's Dad files for divorce and restraining order

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but would he really be worried about that at the moment? His child is missing, I would think he would need and want the support of his wife during this time...now he has no one to lean on.

I agree with you. At a time when my child was missing I could find out my hubbie was having 10 affairs and I wouldn't be thinking about filing for divorce. I only thought would be my child. At that time and place the affairs would become insignificant. The divorce would come later. And then I would make him pay :innocent:

 

[PickieChickie]

I am sure Kaine is angry about Kyron's disappearance. He may have finally had it concerning Terrie's entire attitude about the matter.

Just because he filed for a divorce and restraining order doesn't mean she is responsible for Kyron's disappearance.

He may just be totally pissed off and using the court system to lash out at Terrie because he can't help himself.

(I'm not saying that's the case but countless parents and spouses have used court filings to punish someone simply because they can.)

 

[sneezy]

Part of my job deals with CPS. Judges do NOT hand out ROs like candy. (at least not here in PA) I've even seen cases where a child has been hit with a 2x4 and the mother wasn't able to get a RO without MORE evidence. (she had failed to file a complaint at the time of the incident). Keeping a child from a parent is something that judges take VERY SERIOUSLY and there must be a clear cut reason to do so.

I would have to believe that there was SIGNIFICANT evidence that TH was danger to baby for a judge to issue a RO.

As far as the divorce....I think KH finally was forced to face the horror that the woman he married and had raised his 2 babies might have played a part in the loss of his son.

Even if their marriage was "perfect", I would believe that finding out there is enough evidence for a RO against your spouse might end any feelings you may have had for them. I couldn't imagine ever staying with anyone if they harmed any child let alone my own.

that's my pair of pennies FWIW

 

[SurfieTX]

I'm confused. Why would he move out of the house? If he did get a restraining order, that would automatically force SM to move out for the time being. And, speaking as a mother, I would want to keep my daughter's routine and environment as stable as possible right now.

 

[hollye]

I have a feeling that filing for divorce is something that has been in the works for a while, at least since several months ago when KSB went to live with his father & grandparents. I feel that developments in Kyron's case have probably led KH to believe that it would be in his and their daughter's best interest to proceed with filing at this juncture. JMO

 

[hollye]

I'm not sure if this belongs in this thread or if it is even allowed but last night's news has got people talking again around me (I'm local)

Some friends of friends saw TH last week around town and she was spouting off about the lie detector tests and how she passed them. She was also dissing DY and how the facts were all wrong in the latest news articles.

If this is inappropriate, please pull. I love this site and how well it's monitored. Unlike the free for all on all the other local sites.

Interesting! You can probably put this info in the locals section.

 

[chasing.halos]

I really feel like a certain someone is in complete la la unicorn and rainbow land. "Everything's fine" with a thumbs up sign? Sorry but WTH?

 

[sneezy]

Just having thoughts here...what if the divorce is unrelated to Kyron missing i.e. TM was having an affair. If KH is furious he files for divorce and does not include her name on the statement. He's absolutely livid but because of the affair, not Kyron's disappearance. Just trying to find other explanations...I don't really beleive this but I guess anything is possible.

I could see the divorce this way...but a RO is a very serious thing...Judges do not prevent a parent from seeing a child, especially a mother from seeing a baby without significant, overwhelming evidence that she is a danger to the child. With TH being the primary caregiver/SAHM, I have to believe there was something so "massive" that the judge would cut her off from the baby.

again, it's just my pair of pennies, FWIW

 

[Donjeta]

Maybe I'm being silly, but if this move on Kaine's part had nothing to do with the case, wouldn't he have come out and said that, loud and clear? (or, have waited until she was cleared as a suspect?) IMHO, if it turns out that Kaine did all this, including a RO against the other minor in the family, and Terri is really innocent, then the names I have to describe him are not printable on this page.

Therefore, I don't believe he would do that....

Considering they said (DY and KH) that they kept out of the media for a while to keep the focus on Kyron instead of them I would think he'd have to have darn good reasons in his mind for the divorce because it puts the focus on Terri and their divorce, IMO.

 

[mamaeb]

I wonder if this has anything to do with the flyers being turned back in and gone through. Maybe LE found out more info about terri from those

 

[BeanE]

I've added more of this morning's articles, as well as the transcripts from both Larry King and Nancy Grace from last night's shows to the Today's News thread. You'll also find the links to the videos and articles from this morning's CBS, ABC, and NBC shows there:

[ame="http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=107983"]2010.06.29 ~ TODAY's CURRENT NEWS ***No discussions please*** - Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community[/ame]

 

[gliving]

I could see the divorce this way...but a RO is a very serious thing...Judges do not prevent a parent from seeing a child, especially a mother from seeing a baby without significant, overwhelming evidence that she is a danger to the child. With TH being the primary caregiver/SAHM, I have to believe there was something so "massive" that the judge would cut her off from the baby.

again, it's just my pair of pennies, FWIW

I agree. However I will add a friend of mine's husband was having an affair and he was taking their children to his mistress's home. The only way she could prevent that was to file a RO along with the divorce papers. The judge allowed saying it was not a healthy environment for the children.

 

[ohiogirl]

This new is huge, imo. I believe LE has something and does not want to tip their hand any more than they need to. I think something will break on this very soon. jmo

 

[greenbean]

but would he really be worried about that at the moment? His child is missing, I would think he would need and want the support of his wife during this time...now he has no one to lean on.

Maybe he is leaning on Kyron's mother and stepfather?

 

[laytonian]

So the Kaine had to have heard something in between now and the last presser right????????

The divorce/RO had to have been in the works already, since the courts wouldn't even have been open in Oregon when the news hit this morning.

 

[STEADFAST]

I haven't gotten the impression that Kaine is emotionally volatile enough to have filed for divorce at this crucial time out of jealousy or anger. He seems very practical, the kind of person who, if given information that his daughter might be in danger, would analyze the problem and take the necessary steps.

 

[PickieChickie]

I could see the divorce this way...but a RO is a very serious thing...Judges do not prevent a parent from seeing a child, especially a mother from seeing a baby without significant, overwhelming evidence that she is a danger to the child. With TH being the primary caregiver/SAHM, I have to believe there was something so "massive" that the judge would cut her off from the baby.

again, it's just my pair of pennies, FWIW

Yes, it is. In California, the judge is required to rule in the favor of the parent who is willing to maintain frequent, ongoing visitation with the other child.

In other words, if father files for divorce and asks for sole or full custody, and mother files a response asking for 50/50 legal and joint physical custody with her having the children during the week days and father getting them every other weekend, unless there is legitimate reason to grant the request for sole custody, the selfish party would be denied and the reasonable parent's request granted.

Since there is an attorney involved, I'm certain Kaine has been advised of how filing for a protective order can be viewed by a judge if he or she soon discover the court was played and the claims were fabricated, something which would make Kaine look really bad.

 

[nas212913]

Here's my thinking: KH has doubts about her story. Let's be honest; no one just vanishes into thin air, and she IS the last person to see him.
So KH doubts her story. The wheels in his head are turning. KH and DY are working close together. TH hates it; she's upset and jealous. Maybe KH would rather spend time with DY because Kyron is their son and TH takes that as an insult; why not me?
She starts becoming mean, controlling, insulting DY to KH, talking badly about her. Maybe she even says stuff like "DY didn't raise him, I did. She was never there. I picked up the pieces all the time, etc., etc.".
KH is obviously upset and things are just starting to fall apart. They have arguments, tensions are high already, she threatens to take Baby K and never let KH see Baby K again. Knowing TH's history with men, he gets nervous that she's telling the truth. He contacts an attorney, files the paperwork, she assists him with the RO because TH threatened (possibly) to take Baby K forever, things get filed. Who knows.
This is all MOO, IMO, JMO, IMHO, and all that jazz.

 

[TrialAddict]

If a parent was an alcoholic or drug user would that be enough to get a RO? Can an RO have conditions, like can not be alone with the child, or parent needs to have supervised visits from DCS or whatever it's called there?

 

[PickieChickie]

The divorce/RO had to have been in the works already, since the courts wouldn't even have been open in Oregon when the news hit this morning.

The news hit yesterday afternoon. Terrie was served late afternoon. Preparing the required documents only takes a few hours and they could have been started early yesterday morning then filed in the early afternoon.