Guessing it would be difficult to put TTs family behind you when TTs mother (JDT) has custody of your child. Did TT have a job or his own car?
So why was Danni “goal planning” to have sleepovers and not already having them? What was preventing that? Her work schedule? Was someone telling Danni she had to do certain things to get that privilege? How do you have a stable environment for a child when the father is addicted to drugs and either in jail or rehab?
And how do you maintain a safe distance for yourself living in that environment?
Does Danni still have custody of her child, or has that been changed since her disappearance? TT has criminal convictions, so I can't see him gaining custody of Danni's daughter so quickly.
I'm not sure how to interpret the questions about Danni, but giving it a shot -
Danni was goal planning because she had just spent 9 months gestating a baby for adoption, and the adoptive parents were providing her motivation to strive for the things that mattered to her.
There's no question that there were hurdles in her life, including the devastating affidavits and photos that were submitting to the courts by her ex-husband regarding drug use and irresponsible parenting. For perspective, of note, is the point that the allegations were made by the ex-husband - the man who is ineligible for custody due to heroin use.
It seems, in some sense, that the only thing preventing Danni from custody was family of the father of her child. <modsnip - stating opinion as fact>
Danni asked JDT to drive her to the car dealership to buy her brand new car. I wonder how long she stayed. Danni's last car, also a Chevy Cruz, had been trashed by JDT's son, the heroin user.
JDT must have been so proud - her son's ex-girlfriend was replacing the car that her son trashed.
Goal planning to have sleepovers was when she was allowed, and she was hoping that she would be allowed more often when her daughter started grade school, but it seems that her daugther was already registered at the school near the ex-boyfriend's parents <modsnip - stating opinion as fact>.
It seems like the key to finding Danni is to understand the motive and the creativity associated with disguising that motive.