All Things Britney Spears Part 4

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Lawyer: Cops Issued Restraining Order Against Britney Spears

LAPD officers slapped Britney Spears with a temporary restraining order last Thursday night during her custody standoff, PEOPLE has learned exclusively.

Called an "emergency protective order," it is enforced for five business days. Officers did it to "stabilize the situation," confirmed Kevin Federline's attorney, Mark Vincent Kaplan.

http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20170115,00.html?xid=email-peopledaily-20080109-20170115

She must have been screaming she wanted to kill him or something along those lines for them to do that. I know fighting with my ex I wished him dead a few times. (please God forgive me:angel: )
 
One Lost Girl,
So sorry you have had to suffer with bipolar disorder,but I am happy you seem to have a handle on why you need meds and that they are working for you.
I mentioned that when I worked in a psych hospital,I didn't recall people being released before their hold was up. I think its because I worked on the ICU unit and when patients were admitted to my unit there was no question they met the criteria. There was an "open" unit and I think they probably left earlier.
I don't know what to make of Britney. I do believe she has some mental disorder,but I don't see her or anyone around her accepting it anytime real soon. I feel bad for her.
 
I have a friend who just recently shared with me that she has discovered, quite by accident, that her behavioral issues/mood swings were triggered by eating gluten products (flour).

Before I go further, let me explain that my friend is EXTREMELY CONSCIOUS re: what she and her family eat. She shops exclusively at Whole Foods and will eat nothing at all processed. She is, in short, a healthfood fanatic. However, she did NOT know that gluten was an issue for her.

Years ago, when she was continuing her education in Europe, she was in a horrific car accident and was in a coma for 9 days. They didn't expect her to come out of it, but obviously, she did. But she's had issues -- she had to essentially learn how to think as an adult again, as her injuries left her essentially with the mental/emotional capabilities as that of an adolescent girl. She has come a long way, though. She's now married with 3 children and is doing very well.

BUT...she has always attributed her emotional (at times) issues as being related to her former accident. Her nerves would be entirely short by 5:00 to 6:00 p.m. every night. Now, part of this can certainly be attributed to just the normal pace/hustle-bustle of a busy mom. But still, she sensed that something else was contributing to her inabilities to function appropriately -- she just didn't know what it was.

UNTIL THIS PAST CHRISTMAS.

She bakes a lot for the children -- cookies, mostly. She also loves cookies and would have at least 2 chocolate chip cookies a day. She's vegetarian, so I imagine pasta is something they eat -- maybe not a LOT, but definitely, it's in their diet.

Some of you may know that the gluten free diet is used by DAN! physicians to help the behavioral problems of children on the so-called ADD spectrum. The issue with gluten (and I'm no expert on this, so bear with me) is that these kids have metabolisms that just cannot handle gluten. This inability to metabolize gluten THEN causes these kids to just go ape --- they go nuts. Oft times, these metabolic disorders can then cause the emotional/mental issues that you see so often with these children.

Anyway, when my friend discovered at her family's home this Christmas that eating gluten seemed to be a huge issue for her, she quit eating it and was absolutely, totally amazed with the results! Her behavior is so entirely different that her own family has noticed this as well. It's been 15 years since her car accident and all along, they've been attributing my friend's issues as being related to the accident.

Now, it may be that her sensory receptors are involved here, and this may explain, in part anyway, why gluten is now something she just cannot have. Whatever the reason, and at this point, it doesn't really matter, gluten IS a problem, and she's cutting it out of her diet.

She has also noticed a huge difference in her two older children as well. She said they have definitely toned down.

I've read quite a bit that Britney enjoys a fast food diet -- almost exclusively. So, who knows...perhaps combined with her marriage, having babies so soon, one right after the other, her ensuing divorce, and all the complications that go along with that, plus her issues combined, with show business, IF she has a metabolic disorder on top of it, it COULD explain why she is just suffering miserably.

Oh...another friend of mine has two children who are in show business, but she is definitely a great mom and is with her children at all times on the movie sets. Unfortunately, she has witnessed Jamie Lynn's behavior on the set of her TV show and has witnessed the fact that Jamie's mom was not on the set at the time Jamie would be seen going into her trailer WITH HER BOYFRIEND. I don't know where Jamie's Mom would have been during those times, but surely someone on that TV set, whether it be producers, directors...someone...should have immediately taken steps to ensure Jamie was not in that trailer with her boyfriend (Jamie was 14 years old when my friend stated this happened.)

But what a sad, sad story this all is. My heart goes out to this family. I sincerely hope that Britney receives the care that she so desperately needs. And by the way, I find it truly despicable re: what Dr. Phil has done -- not so much his visiting Britney, although Britney had a right, as an adult, to know that he was going to be in that hospital room -- but the fact that Dr. Phil proceeded to take this room visit and make it public really was offensive. If he truly wanted to help Britney, he should have commenced quietly, but he obviously wanted the PR to go along with it, and now, rightfully so, it's backfired on him.

 
Snip...Does anyone who is familiar with BPD know if it can get worse when a person drinks alcohol?

Yes it can!
It actually can get scary with alcohol use!
My daughter will no longer drink because of some episodes she
has had while drinking.
 
I just re-read my above post, and I can see that some of you may be scratching your heads, wondering what the heck I first posted had to do with the Spears topic. Guess I should have stated, firstly, that perhaps Britney could be suffering with a metabolic issue and then, take it from there...sorry about that.

I just viewed TMZ's interview of a Spears' spokesperson who is now stating that the Spears family does feel betrayed by Phil. This is just so sad -- to have to go through family tragedy and have it all exposed in the public eye is bad enough, but Phil has just added more trauma to the 'drama.'

Hopefully, Britney will see the light and soon...
 
Britney needs tough love right now. Again her parents are blaming someone else oh wahh Dr.Phil betrayed us..Ok who cares? We all know what Britney is out there doing it's not a big secret. Make her mad pi$$ her off maybe she will wake up! If it was my daughter I would move mountains to help her and if she got mad at me in the process then well so be it! Dr.Phil isnt telling us anything we didnt already know.
 
Yes it can!
It actually can get scary with alcohol use!
My daughter will no longer drink because of some episodes she
has had while drinking.

In addition, most if not all medications for mental problems including depression and anxiety, one should not drink with. Not even one drink.
 
In the end, the only person who can really help Britney, IS BRITNEY. She has got to be the one to see the light -- no one else can do that for her.

And no, she's not behaving as an adult should, but she ISN'T an adult. She's an adolescent, packaged in an adult body. She's missed so many vital personal developmental growth stages -- being in show business can be brutal unless you are an emotionally stable person who can handle the pressures.

It helps to have a supportive, caring emotionally stable family, too. Amanda Bynes, a young actress who seems to have her head on straight, stated that she feels terribly sorry for Britney. She stated (I'm not quoting here) during a recent interview, that show business is rough, but you should go into it because of the LOVE for what it is you DO, NOT because of the PR, materialism, money, etc. Smart words for a 21 year old woman.

BIG difference between Amanda and Britney/Jamie Lynn.

This is a wake up call to the Spears family. Hopefully, they'll see the writing on the wall, before it's too late.
 
Does anyone who is familiar with BPD know if it can get worse when a person drinks alcohol? I know a nice person, whose on no medication for anything, who goes into rages if she doesn't get her way during and a day or so after drinking. Drinking affects her worse than anyone I've ever seen even though she doesn't drink real often. She's thrown things at people, tried to hit, called the police lying and telling them that the other person was threatening her, etc. I'm wondering if BPD causes this because she does have anxiety, some irritability, likes to shop quite a bit, always has quite alot of energy, restless, bored, changes jobs alot, but no deep depressions that I know of. The bad stuff didn't start until about Britney's age and when any drinking and going out partying started.
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these are my thoughts and opinions based on my own reasoning of the known facts

It really depends on the type of Bi-polar and what medication they are on. When you do drink and are on medication you become pissed very quickly but it depends on what your drinking.
 
What Britney needs is a forced stay in a good hospital where they can get her off some prescriptions that may be making her worse and ON some that might stabilize her. From the info we have it appears Britney has been diagnosed with ADD and takes meds for that and also an anti-anxiety drug. Without an anti-depressant or anti-psychotic with it, Ritalin or Adderall are just going to exacerbate her mania.

Which moron doctor perscribed all that for her without even assessing her for Bi-Polar or schizoprenia first ???
 
In the end, the only person who can really help Britney, IS BRITNEY. She has got to be the one to see the light -- no one else can do that for her.

And no, she's not behaving as an adult should, but she ISN'T an adult. She's an adolescent, packaged in an adult body. She's missed so many vital personal developmental growth stages -- being in show business can be brutal unless you are an emotionally stable person who can handle the pressures.

It helps to have a supportive, caring emotionally stable family, too. Amanda Bynes, a young actress who seems to have her head on straight, stated that she feels terribly sorry for Britney. She stated (I'm not quoting here) during a recent interview, that show business is rough, but you should go into it because of the LOVE for what it is you DO, NOT because of the PR, materialism, money, etc. Smart words for a 21 year old woman.

BIG difference between Amanda and Britney/Jamie Lynn.

This is a wake up call to the Spears family. Hopefully, they'll see the writing on the wall, before it's too late.
amanda bynes! yack!
well, you at least dont see her out flashing her goodies around.
 
Does anyone who is familiar with BPD know if it can get worse when a person drinks alcohol? I know a nice person, whose on no medication for anything, who goes into rages if she doesn't get her way during and a day or so after drinking. Drinking affects her worse than anyone I've ever seen even though she doesn't drink real often. She's thrown things at people, tried to hit, called the police lying and telling them that the other person was threatening her, etc. I'm wondering if BPD causes this because she does have anxiety, some irritability, likes to shop quite a bit, always has quite alot of energy, restless, bored, changes jobs alot, but no deep depressions that I know of. The bad stuff didn't start until about Britney's age and when any drinking and going out partying started.

See, IMO, this is where things can get confusing.. it sounds to me more like this person you are describing has Borderline personality.. you sound as if you are describing my mother (who is Borderline)!! These two illnesses are often mis-diagnosed as one another.
 
People with bi-polar - and mania and depression disorders - use both alcohol and drugs TO SELF MEDICATE. And they do "feel better" for a while - except that the drugs/alcohol are not controllable as to effect - they cannot "hold" themselves at the theraputic level.

If what I read is correct, Britney was diagnosed with ADD as a CHILD and is prescribed a stimulant. ADD does not go away with age - in fact, it often gets worse - at the same time the person's coping skills are improving with age and maturity so adults often appear "normal" to casual friends and associates. Obviously Brit did not suffer from BPD when she was prescribed the stimulant BUT having BPD and mania does not mean she can stop taking her ADD med.

MANY adults have, and are treated for ADD with associated Bi-Polar disorder (my DH, for instance) and they are prescribed Ritalin or Adderall. Britney is NOT getting a Dr to RX like it's nothing either - and not without a full medical history. Ritalin and Adderall are class 3 controlled substances. You can only get a script for a 1 month supply and a even then it requires a special, double signed prescription for a controlled substance be presented at the pharmacy by an adult with ID. You must return to the DR in PERSON every 30 days for your new script. Some kids do sell theirs BUT neither Ritalin nor Adderall is being prescribed by the bagful to rich spoiled girls - the controls are VERY strict and the pharmacy must report each script to several authorities - in duplicate. They even keep the paper scripts and all class 3 dugs in a safe at all times.

According to LE and the hospital Britney had theraputic levels of all the properly prescribed medication in her body when she "broke down". She may have mixed Vicodin and Adderall and Nyquil - but she was not "under the influence" of ANYTHING when taken into custody - the police recanted their accusations and Britney was released before 72 hours. Her drug tests are also "clean" - and I betcha they check for abuse of prescription drugs as well as illegal ones.

Brit is NOT high on anything - she is in a Manic death spiral...which is worse than any addiction! What is wrong with Brit cannot be "fixed" in rehab - she may mix drugs and take them at odd times (when she does take her meds at all) but it's increasingly apparent Brit is very ill - not addicted.

My Opinion

I do not take things from the pages of a tabloid as fact and as of yet the things you have stated have not been told to us from anyone other than tabloids.

As I said a couple of posts ago, if it is shown she was not "using" during this newest crisis (keeping her child against court orders and having the police called), my opinion about Britney's situation may change. This newest thing IS Bipolar behavior- this I readily admit- but I also believe she is an addict.
 
One Lost Girl,
So sorry you have had to suffer with bipolar disorder,but I am happy you seem to have a handle on why you need meds and that they are working for you.I mentioned that when I worked in a psych hospital,I didn't recall people being released before their hold was up. I think its because I worked on the ICU unit and when patients were admitted to my unit there was no question they met the criteria. There was an "open" unit and I think they probably left earlier.
I don't know what to make of Britney. I do believe she has some mental disorder,but I don't see her or anyone around her accepting it anytime real soon. I feel bad for her.

Thanks! It's much like addiction in some ways- it'll always be with me.. I live one day at a time and am thankful at the end of each day that I made it through without going crazy again.

Not like the situation is funny but- LOL- that would explain why they stayed their whole 72!

My son remembers when I was at my worst and it is so sad the fears the child has- he remembers me being in ICU- he remembers me in a coma, the back of cop cars and seeing mommy run from cops, etc.. it's so sad what mental illness can do not only to US but to those we love.

I pray that if Britney does indeed have Bipolar disorder she gets the help she needs so she can be in her kids lives!!
 
Every pundit that I have read today states BS is an addict in the throes of some kind of mania, and that her life is in danger clearly. But they all state she has both issues-as someone stated previously, drinking and drugs are a classic means of self medicating when you are bi-polar because for a short time it works...you feel better....but it doesn't last and you feel worse...
 
Thanks! It's much like addiction in some ways- it'll always be with me.. I live one day at a time and am thankful at the end of each day that I made it through without going crazy again.

Not like the situation is funny but- LOL- that would explain why they stayed their whole 72!

My son remembers when I was at my worst and it is so sad the fears the child has- he remembers me being in ICU- he remembers me in a coma, the back of cop cars and seeing mommy run from cops, etc.. it's so sad what mental illness can do not only to US but to those we love.

I pray that if Britney does indeed have Bipolar disorder she gets the help she needs so she can be in her kids lives!!


I feel the same way.

I'm sorry that your son has this memory, but thank goodness you got help and can be there for him.
 
Which moron doctor perscribed all that for her without even assessing her for Bi-Polar or schizoprenia first ???

That's part of the problem, she won't stay anywhere long enough to get assessed properly.
 
I saw that Dr. Drew guy commenting on one of the stations today that if Britney isn't hospitalized in the next 2-4 weeks she will be dead. He said even then, after 5 months of evaluation and a year of in-patient living, her chances are only 50/50. Is he serious, that's pretty hopeless! Shouldn't people have hope? That can't be right can it? He must mean if she doesn't continue therapy life long and medication. Anyone else see his comments? It was alarming to me.

And, OMG :silenced: :

http://www.dlisted.com/node/21326
 
My DH and DS are both diagnosed AD/HD and both are medicated for it...DH's Mom is bi-polar with schizophrenic/psychosis..sooo when we were testing DS for ad/hd, they also tested for bi-polar/schizo, because it is hereditary..thank God it turned out to be AD/HD..but I do have to take care of things for MIL and I have tried to learn as much as I can about it her mental illnesses..
If if if if Britney is bi-polar, which it has been stated that she has been diagnosed..then the doctor that put her on Adderall has failed her completely...stimulants are poison to someone that is bi-polar...if this is the case then it explains alot...

First what is the other name for adderall ?? I thought the only 2 meds you could tak,e for Bi-Polar as a starting point was Valpro or lithium.
 
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