Aunty do you know she would never have missed an event like that? I know my mum would have loved to be able to be at all of our(her kids) crosscountry events and the like when we were young. Unfortunately she was not able often due to work commitments. We understood, though would have loved her there. Maybe that is why GBC did attend because Allison couldn't (not for sinister reasons).. That does happen too, if at least one parent can be there for the kids. Its not always these days that parents can attend all of those events. IMO ( don't think we can say with Authority what Allison would or would not have done in the circumstances)
Allison was apparently seen on the Thurs afternoon at the afterschool pick up and the person who spoke to her has been spoken to by police(this was mentioned by a poster last night).
I am sorry , but i must have missed that post . I did read every post right up to 10pm.
Allison was seen at the school on the thu afternoon ?
Are they a verified poster ? :what:
I had ruled out that Allison may have avoided being with her children that day or had work commitments.
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I am simply saying that her not attending the cross country , needs to be seen as a red flag . :what: especially when her husband turns up with scratches on his face and blood red eyes. ( it was stated here)
I am not saying anything at all about " others here or their parents or single parents or anyone else.
I am just drawing on what happened that day and my own experiences of DV I suppose.
And the police are looking at tv programmes that day.
I am now thinking :" Was she in fact alive that day?" that's all .
I am just drawing on my own experiences and If I missed this event ( i always attended ) and my husband went , with scratches on his face,:what: i would hope someone would notice and contact me to ask,
are you ok? :what:
Sadly, I know , that no one would have phoned me either.
That's what upsets me about DV , it so hidden.
Appearences never reflect what is really going on in a DV affected family where the husband is a narcissist (ultimate controller and master of a familys false image) It is hidden remarkably well.
He had scratches remember
- so i can imagine she would have been alot worse off.