I agree.I think that Simon described Erin as a "devoted" mother. People can be devoted to their children and still do things that are not good for their children. imo
“She seemed like a devoted mother, most of the time,” he said.
Simon said he believed she took her role as a mother seriously, that she was keen and supportive of them to be in different activities, and helped them with their homework.
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‘Friction’ over Erin Patterson’s $40-a-month child support payments
The mother is accused of killing three people with poisonous death cap mushrooms.7news.com.au
Plus, I think it is up to the children to decide how they feel about their mother.
In a moral sense, I think one of the worst offences otherwise well-meaning people can commit is to tell children they had a terrible mother. She gave them life, she ensured they survived. It's nothing to do with other things she may or not have done. It's not a course that other people decide whether she passed or failed, it's a profound existential bond.
JMO