Australia Australia - Amesha Rajapakse, 31, Westmead, NSW, 26 Aug 2014

  • #181
Just wanted to add..I live at 'A' block of the monarco estate..and I am a very confused and concerned female at the moment..been checking the updates of what really happened but there's hardly any..

Just thinking if that's a suicide then won't it be easier for a person to jump from the high rised building rather than going to the creek?! ( keeping in mind that she lived on seventh floor )
Edited : typo-->> sorry found this forum really helpful to ease my anxiety and posting for the first time..

Welcome Anoshka!!

:welcome6:

Great to have you here!

And yes, I've been thinking the exact same thing about if it were suicide, wouldn't it have made more sense to leap from the 7th floor? Drowning yourself in a creek seems a method without a lot of certainty of success.
 
  • #182
Thanks so much guys! Still no news..:thinking:
 
  • #183
Thanks so much guys! Still no news..:thinking:

I know! It is surprising. I must say that the fact that the police haven't advised residents to take extra care suggests to me that they think it was either suicide or somebody she knew.

But this must be a very stressful and upsetting time for you there, Anoshka. I feel for you.
 
  • #184
Anoshka, are you familiar with the fence that Amesha would have to have climbed over to reach the creek?

And if so, is it a high fence? Would it be easy for her to climb over in the rain at night?

And is the location where this green x is on the map?

1924359_10203801938000549_2091171946104451512_n.jpg


www.bing.com/maps/

Thanks!! :seeya:
 
  • #185
Thanks so much guys! Still no news..:thinking:

Welcome Anoshka. Please keep us informed of any happenings. It good to have you on board.
 
  • #186
I know! It is surprising. I must say that the fact that the police haven't advised residents to take extra care suggests to me that they think it was either suicide or somebody she knew.

But this must be a very stressful and upsetting time for you there, Anoshka. I feel for you.

Why would they take the car for testing if it was a suicide?

:dunno:

:fishy:

Good thinking Anoshka. A seven floor jump sounds quicker for suicide or murder!

Was she so frightened of someone to run and hide in a creek away from the security of the building?

It was bucketing down outside!!

:fishy:

I think Amesha knew her murderer.
 
  • #187
That's her brother. He's the one who found her body.

SO much is suspicious and not adding up here, imo.

At least, that is what we have been told .. that her brother screamed.
 
  • #188

Thanks for this info, Ausgirl. So it sounds as if the Sinhalese speak Tamil or Sinhala primarily.

I have been trying so hard to get a translation on the comments under that Sri Lankan article, using both of those languages ... but no matter which translator I use, I have only managed to get 'chastity', 'door' and 'good girl', each in different comments. It must be a dialect - or the translator programmes are very limited. :sigh:
 
  • #189
Is Amesha's death similar to Jill Meagher?
I jumped to a terrible conclusion that Jill's husband killed her. Oh how wrong I was.
Jill was innocently walking home.

CCTV helped catch the filth who murdered Jill. I'm hoping the same for Amesha.
Known or unknown.

I'm hoping for an arrest.
 
  • #190
Does someone know how this Sri Lanka Sinhalese Buddhist religion works with their women/sisters?
Am I being politically incorrect to question the over protectiveness of male family members with their sisters?
Could she been scared of her brother? Was milk and butter something that her brother could pick up on the way home? Why didn't she have an access card.
Did she take a short cut in the dark through the creek not realising that it could be flooded? No.
It's not making a great deal of sense. The rain would have limited the bad types down the creek.

Ms Rajapakse arrived from Sri Lanka in 2009 and was an IT graduate.
One staff member at the unit block said Ms Rajapakse’s brother was a “complete mess”.

Hello All,

My first post here. This curious piece of news turned up in the local papers here. Was trying to find out more about this fishy story when I ended here!

Anyway, as to how the "Sinhala Buddhist religion works" (which might not even be relevant anymore), I'll contribute what I can

Sinhala is the ethnicity. You also get Sri Lankan Tamils, Sri Lankan Muslims etc
Buddhism is the religion. You get Sinhala Catholics, Sinhala Protestants etc

Buddhists are relatively liberal, as opposed to some of the local Muslims. It's acceptable for a Sinhala girl to travel alone, drive around or work at a male dominated environments. You will of course get extreme circumstances in every religion ( Buddhists one being vegan, meditation, dressing modestly etc) but cases of male dominated households where women play the secondary role is rare.

In other words, IF the same incident happened in Sri Lanka, and there a picture of mournful family members, one would expect to see the female members in the photo.

The Sri Lankan community in Australia is quite well connected, although this may not be the case with someone who just migrated (as opposed to the majority who been there for 1-2 generations).

That being said I won't be too surprised to hear of an adult female who has an affair with a man and DIDN'T tell about it to her family because of their disapproval etc. I also wouldn't be surprised to hear of a case where the male members (who takes it upon themselves to be responsible) and have explicitly declared their disapproval regarding a new boyfriend. In other words, I won't be too shocked if a 31 year old Buddhist female was having a secret affair that she hadn't told her family about.

Anyway, these are all just assumptions of stereotypes.

And lastly, some girls change their first name ( shorten it or edit it a bit) when they migrate. Might explain the lack of internet visibility.
 
  • #191
Hello All,

My first post here. This curious piece of news turned up in the local papers here. Was trying to find out more about this fishy story when I ended here!

Anyway, as to how the "Sinhala Buddhist religion works" (which might not even be relevant anymore), I'll contribute what I can

Sinhala is the ethnicity. You also get Sri Lankan Tamils, Sri Lankan Muslims etc
Buddhism is the religion. You get Sinhala Catholics, Sinhala Protestants etc

Buddhists are relatively liberal, as opposed to some of the local Muslims. It's acceptable for a Sinhala girl to travel alone, drive around or work at a male dominated environments. You will of course get extreme circumstances in every religion ( Buddhists one being vegan, meditation, dressing modestly etc) but cases of male dominated households where women play the secondary role is rare.

In other words, IF the same incident happened in Sri Lanka, and there a picture of mournful family members, one would expect to see the female members in the photo.

The Sri Lankan community in Australia is quite well connected, although this may not be the case with someone who just migrated (as opposed to the majority who been there for 1-2 generations).

That being said I won't be too surprised to hear of an adult female who has an affair with a man and DIDN'T tell about it to her family because of their disapproval etc. I also wouldn't be surprised to hear of a case where the male members (who takes it upon themselves to be responsible) and have explicitly declared their disapproval regarding a new boyfriend. In other words, I won't be too shocked if a 31 year old Buddhist female was having a secret affair that she hadn't told her family about.

Anyway, these are all just assumptions of stereotypes.

And lastly, some girls change their first name ( shorten it or edit it a bit) when they migrate. Might explain the lack of internet visibility.

Hi Spooks!! Welcome!

:wagon:

Thank you SO much for that cultural info - that was precisely the kind of thing I've been wondering about. The insight is much appreciated.
 
  • #192
Just so all the new people know, you need to regularly click 'refresh' on your computer to see new posts as they're put up - it doesn't happen automatically. Otherwise you may think nothing's happening on thread when it is! :seeya:
 
  • #193
Hello guys! Sorry for not being able to reply at once..anyway, we bought our place about three years ago and yes, you guys are right ..there are 500 apartments of you don't count the villas...and in every appartment there are at least two kids..so you all can well imaging how crowded the area must be during the summer times..children go exploring climbing all the fences...as I mentioned I live in Building 'A' ..the tree lined creek goes all the way from our complex to the 'D' complex....if I go to take my evening walks..I go through A block, B block, C block, D block which makes a good big circle..and trust me I've been behind 'amesha's' block a lot..my friend who lives on that block parks her car near that fence ..( the fence can be seen in one of the photos shared, where the police officer is overlooking the creek) ..I want to assure you all that the fence CANNOT be climbed without anyone noticing ..like there are lots of people around.. The 'B' and 'D'complexs people park their cars in two of the basement car parks..I'm explaining so much coz every time a car passes by ...and most of the members of this community are either doctors or IT professionals ..they all do not work from 9-5 ..it is impossible for me to imagine how anybody can mudered and dump the body without anybody noticing..I'm thinking maybe the person she was waiting for came by car and picked her? God! It's so disturbing..I have to know what happened to find my piece of mind..I keep looking back crossing whenever I'm running errands.. ( please pardon me for my bad English)
 
  • #194
No. I'm five feet four inches..not very tall I know but I'm guessing amesha must be the same or slightly taller? I never saw what was behind that fence..if I really set my mind to climb the fence then I might but not without some people noticing me..
 
  • #195
Anoshka, are you familiar with the fence that Amesha would have to have climbed over to reach the creek?

And if so, is it a high fence? Would it be easy for her to climb over in the rain at night?

And is the location where this green x is on the map?

1924359_10203801938000549_2091171946104451512_n.jpg


www.bing.com/maps/

Thanks!! :seeya:

Opps! I thought I replied you..sorry very new at this..please see below:blushing:
 
  • #196
Welcome Anoshka and spooks! :welcome6:

So nice to have some more local and cultural knowledge on board.

We are so sad for Amesha. We do not even know what she looked like. Everything is being kept so hidden and quiet.

I only hope that this mystery can be solved so that Amesha can rest peacefully, and so that the residents in the area can feel safe again.
 
  • #197
Welcome Anoshka and spooks! :welcome6:

So nice to have some more local and cultural knowledge on board.

We are so sad for Amesha. We do not even know what she looked like. Everything is being kept so hidden and quiet.

I only hope that this mystery can be solved so that Amesha can rest peacefully, and so that the residents in the area can feel safe again.

I'm going all crazy trying to figure out what she looked like..she lived so close..we have common park where everyone come and spend some time together ..I must have seen her , said hello, anything! Why can't they show us her photo so that I at least know she's not somebody I know. How sad :( I might sound stupid not knowing my own neighbour but there are hundreds of them! Aww..
 
  • #198
Also somebody located the closest shop in the estate itself..but I just wanna inform that it's been closed for over a year now..the rent is so high, nobody can afford it..Coles is the closest one ..the other one is the bridge road...like you have to cross the bridge over and walk straight ahead, cross two traffic lights..a family owned small shop is there..I get my bread butter from there if I'm in a hurry and don't want to line up in a supermarket..
 
  • #199
Thank you so much for all of that information Anoshka! :seeya: That's really helpful to know.

And please don't apologise for your English!! It's wonderful - totally clear.

What you said regarding the likelihood of her getting in a car makes sense, now that you've explained the fence situation. What woman is going to be scrambling over that willingly?
 
  • #200
Maybe the police took the car to look for footprints???
 

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