Yes, I understand. I just think if someone close to the family is talking online about this "cousin/uncle" they may also be talking to NG. Who knows!
I'm with you, Lava; I hope so! I'm not sure if we can post the name of the forums we're talking about. The one I read didn't seem to be someone close to the family. The poster was figuring out who JM's parents may be and how he may be related.
I did read a small. local newspaper about a male cousin who is a senior in high school. He called the reporter to get word out about Isabel.
http://www.wcmessenger.com/blogs/mess/?p=2098