Well, it sounds like we are at a disadvantage so far as having a discussion goes.

I don't know what HP's filings said and you can't say because of WS rules or maybe you aren't comfortable saying for other reasons (and that's fine.)
As it is, BW's mother is very likely dead in a garbage pit. There were some pretty inflammatory charges against her brought by BW's father several years ago in a custody fight. Those charges have now been made public. HP's response to those charges has not been made public. While peers are a big deal for kids of BW's age, given what he's facing, I'm not sure his peers and what they think they know are a big issue for BW right now. So I don't know that keeping her filings private helps BW. I can easily believe though neither HP nor JW has been a great parent. They both seem awfully self-centered to me (while determined to project how much they "care.")
JMO