I was just about to say the same when I seen your post I believe the same that this is the only reason he has no criminal history.
The one and only aspect of this case where i feel any kind of pity for Nick is that he never seemed to be given an opportunity to learn / take responsibility or suffer the consequences for any of his actions
We learn from a young age that making mistakes is a way to improve by learning from them . I don't think Nick was ever given this space , it would appear his "mistakes " where incidents to be fixed .
People talk about rock bottom but rarely is it discussed what that actually means . It means the addict or person needing to be in a place where there is no more excuses ,no more enabling and no more outside blame .
The person is then left with a situation where they have no one else to blame but themselves. This rock bottom allows the person to then take responsibility for there own life choices possibly for the first time ,thus taking back power and learning to control themselves .
if we have a situation where boundaries are constantly stretched the person never reaches this rock bottom . The person is always carried through their worst
It is one of the first steps of recovery and the back bone of the serenity prayer ,that a person must take responsibility for their own actions and through the help of god learn to know the difference between what can and cant be controlled.
it would seem the reiners also were not willing to let go of control imo
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