CA CA - Susan Jacobson, 59, Sun City/Roseville, 2 May 2013 - #2

[Psychedelia]

Hey Nikb - I'm not the most hippy-dippy spiritual person around, but... I believe that people who are no longer with us do come to us in dreams. Your dream sounded very vivid, accurate, and it brought forth the same intense feelings in me that I had when my dad came to me in a dream a couple of weeks after he died. It came in a different form (I think because he knew that if he'd appeared before me, I would have freaked out), but it was basically to let me know that he was okay. In the dream, after I realized he was okay and in no pain anymore, I FELT his... energy, maybe - I felt it dissipate and go off, as if into space. And I knew he wasn't here anymore. He came to me because I needed that, and now he's totally, completely gone.

My friends who lost parents even warned me that I'd dream about my dad. I said, "Nah, I never dream about people I'm close to." Which is true. But it happened.

If, by ANY chance, she was sending you a message, I find it really interesting that she'd come to you, a caring stranger who lives somewhat nearby (you do live in the area, right?). It's like she had to get word out to someone who would spread it, and that someone wasn't a person in her family. It's like she knew you cared. And the way you described her gave me chills. Her demeanor sounds exactly how I pictured her. Everything about it makes it seem like a visitation.

I'm normally pretty scientific and skeptical, but this is something I tend to believe in. I don't think Susan is with us anymore. I wish she would have told you more, but it's possible that she has no idea what happened to her.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Hey Nikb - I'm not the most hippy-dippy spiritual person around, but... I believe that people who are no longer with us do come to us in dreams. Your dream sounded very vivid, accurate, and it brought forth the same intense feelings in me that I had when my dad came to me in a dream a couple of weeks after he died. It came in a different form (I think because he knew that if he'd appeared before me, I would have freaked out), but it was basically to let me know that he was okay. In the dream, after I realized he was okay and in no pain anymore, I FELT his... energy, maybe - I felt it dissipate and go off, as if into space. And I knew he wasn't here anymore. He came to me because I needed that, and now he's totally, completely gone.

My friends who lost parents even warned me that I'd dream about my dad. I said, "Nah, I never dream about people I'm close to." Which is true. But it happened.

If, by ANY chance, she was sending you a message, I find it really interesting that she'd come to you, a caring stranger who lives somewhat nearby (you do live in the area, right?). It's like she had to get word out to someone who would spread it, and that someone wasn't a person in her family. It's like she knew you cared. And the way you described her gave me chills. Her demeanor sounds exactly how I pictured her. Everything about it makes it seem like a visitation.

I'm normally pretty scientific and skeptical, but this is something I tend to believe in. I don't think Susan is with us anymore. I wish she would have told you more, but it's possible that she has no idea what happened to her.

I so agree with your post...

I belonged to a Grief Support Group after my son died of SIDS 26 years ago...

At one particular "Five Years After" reunion type meeting the topic of dreams came up ... And a majority (including me) of the people had experienced a dream in which there was some type of "visitation"... And that the dream left us all with a certain amount of closure and acceptance that our children were "okay"....

additionally... You have got me thinking... Regarding NikB's meal with Susan in her dream...

I wonder if there is a Mexican restaurant close to where Susan's car was found...
Could this maybe be a "clue"...?

:dunno:

 

[nikb]

Hey Nikb - I'm not the most hippy-dippy spiritual person around, but... I believe that people who are no longer with us do come to us in dreams. Your dream sounded very vivid, accurate, and it brought forth the same intense feelings in me that I had when my dad came to me in a dream a couple of weeks after he died. It came in a different form (I think because he knew that if he'd appeared before me, I would have freaked out), but it was basically to let me know that he was okay. In the dream, after I realized he was okay and in no pain anymore, I FELT his... energy, maybe - I felt it dissipate and go off, as if into space. And I knew he wasn't here anymore. He came to me because I needed that, and now he's totally, completely gone.

My friends who lost parents even warned me that I'd dream about my dad. I said, "Nah, I never dream about people I'm close to." Which is true. But it happened.

If, by ANY chance, she was sending you a message, I find it really interesting that she'd come to you, a caring stranger who lives somewhat nearby (you do live in the area, right?). It's like she had to get word out to someone who would spread it, and that someone wasn't a person in her family. It's like she knew you cared. And the way you described her gave me chills. Her demeanor sounds exactly how I pictured her. Everything about it makes it seem like a visitation.

I'm normally pretty scientific and skeptical, but this is something I tend to believe in. I don't think Susan is with us anymore. I wish she would have told you more, but it's possible that she has no idea what happened to her.

I think I'm like you, Psychadelia. I generally don't believe the whole "psychic" thing (particularly the commercial ones) but I have had enough things happen in my life, and know of others who have as well, for there not to be something out there IMO. I'm sorry to hear about your Dad passing away, but it sounds like his energy was comforting.

To answer your question, yes I'm in the area. I don't live right there, but within 20 minutes and have lots of friends and family within just a few miles of Sun City, so I'm out there quite a bit.

And yes, this dream really struck me. I can't even explain it. I certainly got chills from it. It was one of the more vivid dreams I think I've ever had. There were even more details I didn't share here only because I know it's a borderline TOS thing (just to be clear for TOS purposes I'm not claiming I had some "vision," I just wanted to share a dream I had with Susan's fellow supporters).

 

[nikb]

I so agree with your post...

I belonged to a Grief Support Group after my son died of SIDS 26 years ago...

At one particular "Five Years After" reunion type meeting the topic of dreams came up ... And a majority (including me) of the people had experienced a dream in which there was some type of "visitation"... And that the dream left us all with a certain amount of closure and acceptance that our children were "okay"....

additionally... You have got me thinking... Regarding NikB's meal with Susan in her dream...

I wonder if there is a Mexican restaurant close to where Susan's car was found...
Could this maybe be a "clue"...?

:dunno:

I'm so sorry to hear about your son, Ihavenoclue. I can't even imagine. Interesting that you and the support group had similar dreams, too.

Again please remember this is just a dream so who knows, re: the meal. I don't know how much I can say within TOS since it's in the whole dream realm, but hopefully this is ok. One thing I didn't mention before is she was very specific about wanting to meet away from Roseville. Not that far, but not too close. I got the feeling it was maybe 10-20 miles away. The place had green and white umbrellas. Hubby and I didn't even order our own food, as she had already ordered an empanada and burrito for herself and it too much food so we all split it. (did I mention it was a detailed dream??)

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

I'm so sorry to hear about your son, Ihavenoclue. I can't even imagine. Interesting that you and the support group had similar dreams, too.

Again please remember this is just a dream so who knows, re: the meal. I don't know how much I can say within TOS since it's in the whole dream realm, but hopefully this is ok. One thing I didn't mention before is she was very specific about wanting to meet away from Roseville. Not that far, but not too close. I got the feeling it was maybe 10-20 miles away. The place had green and white umbrellas. Hubby and I didn't even order our own food, as she had already ordered an empanada and burrito for herself and it too much food so we all split it. (did I mention it was a detailed dream??)

Thank you for your kind words, NikB... :hug:

Oh yes.... I want to stay within TOS, too...

thanks for the reminder...:seeya:

 

[scmom]

Still no updates on Susan's facebook page. Where is Susan?

 

[Treelights]

Bringing this over from the first thread about the private investigator.....
Looks like Danville PI did get verified, so I wonder if this is Kjac22's private investigator for Susan's family?
IMOO.

Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community - View Single Post - CA CA - Susan Jacobson, 59, Sun City/Roseville, 2 May 2013 - #1

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Good memory, Treelights!

sounds like this verified insider, Danville PI, could be helpful to Susan's family!

JMO

 

[nikb]

Darn it... I was away for most of the day and I always somehow hope that there will be some miraculous update when I come back if I can't check in frequently. I know, it's unrealistic, but I always hope. DH and I drove through Roseville, Rocklin, and all the way up to Reno on a short road trip then back home (hey what's a 2.5 hour drive to dinner when you enjoy cruising, right?). I thought about Susan the whole time. Kept an eye out too of course, especially on our way through Roseville both ways. I just can't believe she disappeared so seemingly easily where she did. I'm not saying I have a theory, but all of the half dozen or so that I've thought of just blow my mind... nothing makes any sense. Breaks my heart all over again any time I'm in that general area, probably even more-so since I had that dream the other night and felt like I "met" Susan. Hoping against hope that she's okay, wherever she might be.

 

[nikb]

C'mon Susan... rooting for you. Please help us find you, or at least let us know you're okay, if you can.

So sad that there's still nothing new. In her case and others I follow I always hope Monday will lead to something, like maybe something was found over the weekend and it'll be shared on Monday.

 

[nikb]

Where are you, Susan?

 

[nikb]

So sad there's nothing new. I feel so helpless! What more can be done to help find Susan, if she wants to be found?

 

[Treelights]

Absolutely sad that there's nothing new, no updates. It's as if the mentioning of Susan has faded into obscurity in main stream media. I wonder why that is?
I appreciate you Nikb for continuing to post about Susan. I think about her every day as well. I hope she is safe and well......
IMOO.

 

[scmom]

I don't know how a search can be organized unless LE or the family calls for one, but it sure seems to me that Susan needs an advocate.

 

[nikb]

Absolutely sad that there's nothing new, no updates. It's as if the mentioning of Susan has faded into obscurity in main stream media. I wonder why that is?
I appreciate you Nikb for continuing to post about Susan. I think about her every day as well. I hope she is safe and well......
IMOO.

Aw thank you Treelights. I feel somehow obligated (in a good way) to keep her story out there, but it's also so frustrating. I feel like I should be able to do more but I have absolutely no idea what to do. I agree with you, I hope she's safe and well. I don't even care if we know where she is or what she's doing, I just want to know she's okay.

 

[nikb]

I don't know how a search can be organized unless LE or the family calls for one, but it sure seems to me that Susan needs an advocate.

Agreed scmom! My big question is who can be her advocate? It seems like it has to be family or someone endorsed by family. I don't think some random person who's never even met her can just show up and fight for her.

 

[Treelights]

Agreed scmom! My big question is who can be her advocate? It seems like it has to be family or someone endorsed by family. I don't think some random person who's never even met her can just show up and fight for her.

IMOO.
For some reason, if her family is Susan's advocate, it is Not shown publicly anymore.
When Kjac22 posted back in July that he has come to the realization that most likely Susan is deceased and they want her found so they can end this and move on.... that was only less than 2 and a half months after Susan went missing.........

Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community - View Single Post - CA CA - Susan Jacobson, 59, Sun City/Roseville, 2 May 2013 - #1

From KJAC22 SNIPPED FROM HIS POST, LINK ABOVE:

"I realized she is likely deceased - and to the extent possible (without truly knowing), I think I have come to terms with that. I just want her found - for her sake and for the family's, so that we can end this and move on (and grieve if need be)."

 

[nikb]

IMOO.
For some reason, if her family is Susan's advocate, it is Not shown publicly anymore.
When Kjac22 posted back in July that he has come to the realization that most likely Susan is deceased and they want her found so they can end this and move on.... that was only less than 2 and a half months after Susan went missing.........

Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community - View Single Post - CA CA - Susan Jacobson, 59, Sun City/Roseville, 2 May 2013 - #1

From KJAC22 SNIPPED FROM HIS POST, LINK ABOVE:

"I realized she is likely deceased - and to the extent possible (without truly knowing), I think I have come to terms with that. I just want her found - for her sake and for the family's, so that we can end this and move on (and grieve if need be)."

BBM. Thanks for the reminder. I'd kind of forgotten about this. I remember when I read the post thinking it had been almost 2 years since my dog died and it still tears me up. Obviously everyone deals with things differently but I can't imagine feeling so under control 2.5 months after my Mom disappeared/died.

No offense intended to Kjac or anyone else in the family. I might just handle things really differently (or not handle them, depending on how you look at it). I wonder if the family knows something that they can't share.

Just jumping off... there was a body found in a large creek not far from where Susan went missing a few months ago. For some reason the story hit the local news again, so of course the "film at 11" caption was "body found in Roseville creek." My heart was pounding so hard. I couldn't even decide if I was hoping it was Susan or hoping it wasn't her. Turned out to be a missing teenage boy from Southern CA. (story here for anyone interested: http://www.kcra.com/news/local-news...ion/-/12969376/21791798/-/8lth1i/-/index.html)

 

[sophiebelle]

At some point, people do have to try to move on and live their lives, especially when they have a child. But it seems awfully soon to just stop mentioning her. I try very hard to not be critical of families when they have a loved one missing. I can only hope that some event, like a holiday or birthday, will bring Susan's name back to light.

 

[Eileen730]

At some point, people do have to try to move on and live their lives, especially when they have a child. But it seems awfully soon to just stop mentioning her. I try very hard to not be critical of families when they have a loved one missing. I can only hope that some event, like a holiday or birthday, will bring Susan's name back to light.

I would never ever stop looking for my mother!
I know my mother would never ever stop looking for me!