Just as an observer of being married to a man for 20 years who I've only recently come to understand is most likely on the autism spectrum due to our dear son who is 11 years old and severely autistic, I just have to put my two cents in, even if it's completely unrelated. My husband is extremely intelligent, (but hopelessly inept socially, in my opinion). Day to day "stuff" eludes him. He could care less about mess, etc. although there is a fastidiousness about him in which he usually looks great in dress, hair, etc. there is a disconnect. He desires human interaction, and usually people love him but on a personal level he comes across as silent, uninterested, even cold. Unfortunately in the last year I have learned about a dark side. I don't want to go into detail but just want to be heard and understood that even the most gentle, quiet, exhausted, people can be capable of extreme narcissistic rage.
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