Bryer's dad reminds me of people I knew when I worked at a public library. Some of them were homeless; most of them had mental health issues and quite a few also had criminal records. They could sometimes be hard to deal with, but most of them were so pitiful, you just sort of learned to overlook that. And many of them were actually quite enjoyable to chat with and interesting to talk to. And they often treated library staff like close family and friends because they had nobody else in their lives.It's so good to see some compassion here. I believe the same thing. Alan S. has no one, and it is not uncommon for lonely people to talk to anyone who will listen, especially if they are a talker. Without his need to communicate (which is very human and quite common), we wouldn't know as much about the circumstances under which Bryer was raised.
I don't think most people here would consider Alan to be mentally ill if they met him at the supermarket or he showed up at your garage sale.
There's been a lot of media focus on how troubled and "in pain" BS must have been, to go on a murder spree. But Kam has to be "troubled" and "in pain" too, right?
Most families have dynamics that can be criticized if one of their kids becomes a heinous murderer.
It broke my heart then, and because of that, every time I see AS, no matter how ostensibly ill-advised his media appearance is, he just fills me with a profound sadness. I sincerely hope he can get some help because he seems like a man who was badly hurting before all this and is very lost now.
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