Cindy is Unbelievable

[Snaz]

Most long term disability policies that you would buy through an employer have a limit of 2 years. If you are not able to work after that, then SSI is the next step.
She has obviously not gone back to work so it's a safe assumption that she has got SSI disability or come into some money....

IIRC, Cindy's long term disability was supposed to have ended this past January, 2011. I think at that point, it's out of the hands of her employer. If she is unable to return to work, she would have had to applied for SSI.

However, I find it hard to believe they would approve her SSI when she is perfectly capable of working. I know someone who applied for SSI for her child, who legitimately deserves it, and she has gotten nothing but the run-around.

I would be so sad to think Cindy could so easily get disability when she is able to sit through hearings day after day, all day long, and my friend has had to jump through hoops and STILL hasn't been approved. Of course, she is not in Florida. Maybe it is easier in one state over another.

But I have to say, that I have been extremely curious how they are making their mortgage payments, etc. Cause we KNOW George hasn't gotten a job. Heck, he couldn't hold down a job BEFORE all this started. And he has the same sense of entitlement that Cindy has, anyway.

JMHO

 

[Snaz]

CA *is* truly "unbelievable"....did you hear that comment in the 48 HRS special...she said KC "was my best friend".
THIS is WHY KC is so screwed up. KC needed a parent, not a "friend". CA is so full of herself! She said that Caylee was "everyone's child"...nnooooooo.....she was KC's CHILD. I can see (in many ways) how resentful KC would be, watching CA be Caylee's Mother. What a hopeless clueless woman CA is!

BBM

Cindy is full of carp. There is no way she believed she and ICA were "best friends." ICA made it very clear time after time how much she hated her mother. Best friends, indeed. :banghead:

JMHO

 

[LolaMoon08]

IIRC, Cindy's long term disability was supposed to have ended this past January, 2011. I think at that point, it's out of the hands of her employer. If she is unable to return to work, she would have had to applied for SSI.

However, I find it hard to believe they would approve her SSI when she is perfectly capable of working. I know someone who applied for SSI for her child, who legitimately deserves it, and she has gotten nothing but the run-around.

I would be so sad to think Cindy could so easily get disability when she is able to sit through hearings day after day, all day long, and my friend has had to jump through hoops and STILL hasn't been approved. Of course, she is not in Florida. Maybe it is easier in one state over another.

But I have to say, that I have been extremely curious how they are making their mortgage payments, etc. Cause we KNOW George hasn't gotten a job. Heck, he couldn't hold down a job BEFORE all this started. And he has the same sense of entitlement that Cindy has, anyway.

JMHO

I'm thinking Cindy has gotten some kind of advance money (book/s)? It is really close to trial and soon it will be over. If they want to see any books written by the Anthony's, it is going to have to be soon after the trial because no one will even care about them a year from now.

I know I won't care about them AT ALL once that one word is spoken. GUILTY!

 

[LiveLaughLuv]

CA *is* truly "unbelievable"....did you hear that comment in the 48 HRS special...she said KC "was my best friend".
THIS is WHY KC is so screwed up. KC needed a parent, not a "friend". CA is so full of herself! She said that Caylee was "everyone's child"...nnooooooo.....she was KC's CHILD. I can see (in many ways) how resentful KC would be, watching CA be Caylee's Mother. What a hopeless clueless woman CA is!

How about when CA said, Caylee wasn't just ICA's child, she was OUR child, she belonged to all of us!

Children are not possessions and I do believe part of the problem, naa, most of the problems were due to CA and how she felt about ICA and Caylee...I can almost invision CA telling ICA, I am Caylee's parent, I support her, I pay for her medical, I put this roof over both your heads, etc...you (ICA) are her nanny, her babysitter....when I get home from work, you run out....I believe this family dynamic, ICA's inability to feel love, her sense of entitlement, putting one child (ICA) against the other (Caylee), add in ICA is my best friend and you will have one confused family...

CA never means what she says when dealing with ICA...never being held accountable, no boundries, no consequences for bad behavior and you get an out of control adult child who didn't want to be a mother in the first place. Just because a woman gives birth it doesn't automatically make her a mother....some woman are just not mothering material and I do believe that is ICA...JMHO

Justice for Caylee

 

[ZsaZsa]

IIRC, Cindy's long term disability was supposed to have ended this past January, 2011. I think at that point, it's out of the hands of her employer. If she is unable to return to work, she would have had to applied for SSI.

However, I find it hard to believe they would approve her SSI when she is perfectly capable of working. I know someone who applied for SSI for her child, who legitimately deserves it, and she has gotten nothing but the run-around.

I would be so sad to think Cindy could so easily get disability when she is able to sit through hearings day after day, all day long, and my friend has had to jump through hoops and STILL hasn't been approved. Of course, she is not in Florida. Maybe it is easier in one state over another.

But I have to say, that I have been extremely curious how they are making their mortgage payments, etc. Cause we KNOW George hasn't gotten a job. Heck, he couldn't hold down a job BEFORE all this started. And he has the same sense of entitlement that Cindy has, anyway.

JMHO

If she is getting SSI then it's because she can lie with impunity to her primary care MD and a Psychiatrist as to her mental state. She has been portraying herself as the super-anxious depressed Granny, (even on the witness stand)who pays no attention to her appearance and can't concentrate on anything, gets confused easily, not much interest in life anymore, and can't sleep at night. There is a very limited pool of employers who would hire anyone in that shape.
I think she got SSI. It's hard to understand why some deserving people don't get it, I agree. Her age is on her side.
I can see her saying "I got it, so those pills can go in the garbage, gonna make me an all day Spa/hair/nails appointment...then I'm going shopping.. I'm back!

 

[ZsaZsa]

How about when CA said, Caylee wasn't just ICA's child, she was OUR child, she belonged to all of us!

Children are not possessions and I do believe part of the problem, naa, most of the problems were due to CA and how she felt about ICA and Caylee...I can almost invision CA telling ICA, I am Caylee's parent, I support her, I pay for her medical, I put this roof over both your heads, etc...you (ICA) are her nanny, her babysitter....when I get home from work, you run out....I believe this family dynamic, ICA's inability to feel love, her sense of entitlement, putting one child (ICA) against the other (Caylee), add in ICA is my best friend and you will have one confused family...

CA never means what she says when dealing with ICA...never being held accountable, no boundries, no consequences for bad behavior and you get an out of control adult child who didn't want to be a mother in the first place. Just because a woman gives birth it doesn't automatically make her a mother....some woman are just not mothering material and I do believe that is ICA...JMHO

Justice for Caylee

Overpossessive and domineering CA, I know, but that statement tells me that CA not the MOY was the one that always mothered Caylee. ICA spent most of her time on the phone/PC/texting/going to 'work'..

 

[LambChop]

I think one of the incentives of focusing while you are on the job is being able to pay your bills. If everyone who suffers from depression from a loss of a close family member half the country would be on SSI. She gets up in the morning, dresses herself quite nicely, puts the right combination of makeup on, sits in court and comprehends everything that is going on, takes notes at times, shakes head at appropriate times during testimony, etc. Someone who cannot get out of bed in the morning, cannot function on a regular basis is someone who needs assistance. Her quick comment in the elevator w/Amil about there being "other elevators" shows she still is quite on-the-ball and more than able to function in a position. There is nothing wrong with her and one can NEVER recover fully unless we get back into the stream of things. Bet her house is as clean as a whistle. There's nothing wrong with her if she can still clean her home. jmo

ETA: If CA was terminated because she would not return to work she may be on unemployment compensation. This would take her through the trial.

 

[ZsaZsa]

I think one of the incentives of focusing while you are on the job is being able to pay your bills. If everyone who suffers from depression from a loss of a close family member half the country would be on SSI. She gets up in the morning, dresses herself quite nicely, puts the right combination of makeup on, sits in court and comprehends everything that is going on, takes notes at times, shakes head at appropriate times during testimony, etc. Someone who cannot get out of bed in the morning, cannot function on a regular basis is someone who needs assistance. Her quick comment in the elevator w/Amil about there being "other elevators" shows she still is quite on-the-ball and more than able to function in a position. There is nothing wrong with her and one can NEVER recover fully unless we get back into the stream of things. Bet her house is as clean as a whistle. There's nothing wrong with her if she can still clean her home. jmo

ETA: If CA was terminated because she would not return to work she may be on unemployment compensation. This would take her through the trial.

How could she get unemployment benefit if (a) she was terminated, and (b) there are so many Nursing jobs in Orlando she could walk into one tomorrow.
Of course that would not be the desk job she had, it would be bedside Nursing which is arduous, not something she would want to do.. the Unemployment people could force her to search for work but it wouldn't be difficult for her to sabotage an interview by going in her 'depressed Granny' persona.

 

[LiveLaughLuv]

Overpossessive and domineering CA, I know, but that statement tells me that CA not the MOY was the one that always mothered Caylee. ICA spent most of her time on the phone/PC/texting/going to 'work'..

No doubt, ZsaZsa...CA most certainly loved Caylee so I don't understand her stance now? I do understand intellectually but not emotionally...CA cannot unring that bell...she knows the truth of what happened to Caylee but still wants to know the details in Caylee's demise. I understand her not believing ICA could have 'intentionally' murdered Caylee but it sure does seem that way from the outside looking in...too many enemy actions/inactions in those 31 days along with the party hearty attitude...I can't wait to hear Baez' compelling reason why she didn't mention this large little detail to anyone, that Caylee was allegedly abducted by this non existant nanny...JMHO

Justice for Caylee

 

[LambChop]

How could she get unemployment benefit if (a) she was terminated, and (b) there are so many Nursing jobs in Orlando she could walk into one tomorrow.
Of course that would not be the desk job she had, it would be bedside Nursing which is arduous, not something she would want to do.. the Unemployment people could force her to search for work but it wouldn't be difficult for her to sabotage an interview by going in her 'depressed Granny' persona.

You can still get benefits if you are terminated. It would depend on the reason. But you are right she would have to be actively searching for a job and it also would be easy for her to make herself sound unemployable such as asking for time off when there are hearings, leave of absense when the trial gets under way would not make you too appealing to a prospective employer. jmo

 

[littlemisslegal]

I think one of the incentives of focusing while you are on the job is being able to pay your bills. If everyone who suffers from depression from a loss of a close family member half the country would be on SSI. She gets up in the morning, dresses herself quite nicely, puts the right combination of makeup on, sits in court and comprehends everything that is going on, takes notes at times, shakes head at appropriate times during testimony, etc. Someone who cannot get out of bed in the morning, cannot function on a regular basis is someone who needs assistance. Her quick comment in the elevator w/Amil about there being "other elevators" shows she still is quite on-the-ball and more than able to function in a position. There is nothing wrong with her and one can NEVER recover fully unless we get back into the stream of things. Bet her house is as clean as a whistle. There's nothing wrong with her if she can still clean her home. jmo

ETA: If CA was terminated because she would not return to work she may be on unemployment compensation. This would take her through the trial.

AMIL was not in elevator- I was -lol

 

[lauriej]

ICA refused to give LE a swab for DNA testing.
The Jury should know that critical fact.

..the whole family did give buccal swabs for DNA. ( or do you mean she initially didn't want to? )

CSI report July 28/2008.

At approximately 1729 hrs I arrived at the Forensics Office and I received from CSI Christine Narkiewicz the following pieces of evidence:

- One sealed yellow envelope containing four toothbrushes (Art #1, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one brush (Art #2, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one comb (Art #3, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one thermometer(Art #4, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing two buccal swabs from the left cheek of Casey Marie Anthony (Art #1, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-6)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing two buccal swabs from the right cheek of Casey Marie Anthony (Art #2, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-7)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing head hair from Casey Marie Anthony (Art #3, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-8)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing pulled head hair from Casey Marie Anthony (Art #4, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-9)

 

[LambChop]

AMIL was not in elevator- I was -lol

Yea, I caught that too late. Sorry. I think of you two as our "court angels" and sometimes I get my angels crossed. lol

I must say you are very, very brave. I think CA could bite your head off if you so much as replied to her the way she talks to everyone. She's a little tense and understandably but being rude is no excuse. It was a perfect time to make some points for herself and KC by continuing the lighthearted conversation. A million things she could have said to make everyone laugh and leave them with a positive note but I think she has gone beyond that and will be bitter the rest of her life. What you saw was the real CA not the one she presents as her professional self. I think sarcasm comes easy for her. jmo

 

[ZsaZsa]

..the whole family did give buccal swabs for DNA. ( or do you mean she initially didn't want to? )

CSI report July 28/2008.

At approximately 1729 hrs I arrived at the Forensics Office and I received from CSI Christine Narkiewicz the following pieces of evidence:

- One sealed yellow envelope containing four toothbrushes (Art #1, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one brush (Art #2, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one comb (Art #3, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing one thermometer(Art #4, Item #H-52051)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing two buccal swabs from the left cheek of Casey Marie Anthony (Art #1, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-6)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing two buccal swabs from the right cheek of Casey Marie Anthony (Art #2, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-7)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing head hair from Casey Marie Anthony (Art #3, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-8)

- One sealed yellow envelope containing pulled head hair from Casey Marie Anthony (Art #4, Item #H-52050, FBI submission K-9)

CA and GA gave buccal swabs voluntarily (eventually) but ICA and LA only gave them when subpoena'd.
All of them refused polygraph tests.
I don't know from this list if this is the family hairbrush hair that CA submitted when they wanted Caylee only. When she stated she should have given them the dog's hairbrush.

 

[niaa]

I thought that witnesses would not be allowed into court at least until they had testified. And I thought that if they were subject to recall , they would not be allowed in at all. I would hope they would be kept out.

 

[littlemisslegal]

Yea, I caught that too late. Sorry. I think of you two as our "court angels" and sometimes I get my angels crossed. lol

I must say you are very, very brave. I think CA could bite your head off if you so much as replied to her the way she talks to everyone. She's a little tense and understandably but being rude is no excuse. It was a perfect time to make some points for herself and KC by continuing the lighthearted conversation. A million things she could have said to make everyone laugh and leave them with a positive note but I think she has gone beyond that and will be bitter the rest of her life. What you saw was the real CA not the one she presents as her professional self. I think sarcasm comes easy for her. jmo

awe, thanks-lol. I am not shy , have a lot of nerve and great humor. I can usually get my point across with a smile even if i am sarcastic too- so cindy may have met her match-lol. truthfully- cindy and george have never ever been rude to me. I have spoke to them alone and with other around before hearings or breaks.
I have walked right up to her in court and spoke- same of george. I have spoke with state atty team.and defense and andrea. nothing big just maybe a small chit chat. However I was in elelvator with ashton on day he did his opening statements of how casey may have died. I told him he was amazing as not a dry eye on some of us. I told jose I liked his smirk- he blushed-lol. I talk to anyone-lol!!!

I can say I am fair-. I sometimes agree with the comment a liar, does not make a killer . Then I debate with myself on those non reactions I posted about. so no comment on guilty or innocent. Since I was not the one who spoke of sardines and the reply was not to me-when I walked to parking garage by myself to my car I thought - it must be hard to be cindy. She has become defensive of why people seem to enter an elevator with her. If she goes to bathroom people follow her. cameras, reporters, the public. I would probably scream - its my private toilet time people!!!!lol oh - the agony of fame = good or bad -its damm hard to be cindy I bet. I thought she really thinks we are trying to just get close to her - not that we wanted to get out just like her. Then i felt maybe she felt everyone wants to invade her space. I really felt she must feel like a bug under a microscope!

 

[Horace Finklestein]

If she can go to court and testify and endure the pressure, stress, and organization which that requires, there is NO reason she should be on any kind of SSI imo. If she had a truly debilitating disorder (panic/anxiety, etc) she wouldn't be able to do those things. They are far more stressful than a normal workday for most folks. I'm sure she thinks this case is special and unique and so is she and her "grief" but that's just not the case.

 

[txsvicki]

CA *is* truly "unbelievable"....did you hear that comment in the 48 HRS special...she said KC "was my best friend".
THIS is WHY KC is so screwed up. KC needed a parent, not a "friend". CA is so full of herself! She said that Caylee was "everyone's child"...nnooooooo.....she was KC's CHILD. I can see (in many ways) how resentful KC would be, watching CA be Caylee's Mother. What a hopeless clueless woman CA is!

I believe that Casey is truly a full blown psychopath and that she may have had her mother fooled and manipulated into thinking that she thought her mom was her best friend. I've heard many younger women say that their mom was their best friend,so often that it seems like a trend or popular thing to say. Casey probably picked up on the trend and used it to her advantage in manipulating Cindy for awhile. Casey probably told Cindy that many times over a two year period, but Cindy does more harm that good with all her statements. The "best friend" statement is ridiculous because everyone knows that Casey used her parents and abused them very badly after she had Caylee.It just makes Casey look even more like a psychopath/sociopath.

 

[LinasK]

How could she get unemployment benefit if (a) she was terminated, and (b) there are so many Nursing jobs in Orlando she could walk into one tomorrow.
Of course that would not be the desk job she had, it would be bedside Nursing which is arduous, not something she would want to do.. the Unemployment people could force her to search for work but it wouldn't be difficult for her to sabotage an interview by going in her 'depressed Granny' persona.

:hand:Her job was Not strictly a desk job, it also required visiting patients and doing care and assessment. I worked many years doing home health, under Nurse Case Managers, and even for Gentiva... However, that being said, with Cindy's history of lying since Caylee was gone, and covering up, and calling Chloroform, Chlorophyll, and denying that a 7-mo. female was pregnant, I highly doubt she will ever be rehired as a nurse for those reasons alone!!!:snooty:

 

[Solace]

:hand:Her job was Not strictly a desk job, it also required visiting patients and doing care and assessment. I worked many years doing home health, under Nurse Case Managers, and even for Gentiva... However, that being said, with Cindy's history of lying since Caylee was gone, and covering up, and calling Chloroform, Chlorophyll, and denying that a 7-mo. female was pregnant, I highly doubt she will ever be rehired as a nurse for those reasons alone!!!:snooty:

Cindy is one sick puppy. I think when this trial comes to an end, we are going to see just how sick she is - sick, to the extent of ignoring what is right there in front of her - I still can't wrap my head around KNOWING your daughter is not going to work and yet SAYING GOOD BYE TO HER EVERY DAY AS IF SHE WERE.

We got an inkling of their very sick relationship when she lied on the stand recently (re dryer towels in the trunk) and her daughter thanking her as she left. Doesn't get much worse than that. Thanks for lying Mom, really love ya for it. It is beyond strange.

Not so much that Cindy lies - one never knows what they would do - but the fact that the daughter smiles at her and thanks her iN FRONT OF EVERYONE is downright - f*&% you to everyone.