CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #13

[TxJan1971]

Since Marc brought up Redwine's temper and since there have been a number of posts about premeditation vs not, I thought I'd throw out my thoughts on this.

MR went out of his way to insure that Dylan did come for his visitation. He wanted it and apparently went to some trouble to insist on it being honored. Then he went out of his way to drive to the Durango area to meet Dylan for visitation.

Then Dylan's flight was canceled. MR had a day to stew about this, possibly while drinking. IF (big if) he was the sort to take everything personally and IF he still had an explosive temper, and IF he still drank and exhibited inappropriate behavior while drinking, then I think these all converged into a premeditated rage.

It is possible that Dylan's frownie in the text to his mom may have indicated his Dad's drinking and belligent attitude on his arrival.

IMO, it is possible. Yes. Did that happen? I don't know. Is it possible? Yes.

 

[vasportsmom]

Obviously the person I responded to did care or she wouldn't have asked.

That's hardly a fair assumption.


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[tiredblondy]

I have a question for them. Why is it more cruel to not return text messages from someone who is bitter and possibly accusatory right away than to accuse someone of murdering his own son on national tv?

Maybe Beach will forward that question.

 

[TxJan1971]

just another way of saying that she can do anything out of the ordinary because she's a grieving mother, but he can't do anything out of the ordinary or it proves he's guilty. Thanks

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! All thoughts are considered by me...

 

[Linda7NJ]

Obviously the person I responded to did care or she wouldn't have asked.

If sawing off my right arm would help find my child, I'd do it. I'd do ANYTHING asked of me by law enforcement so they could rule me out and focus every able body on finding my child.

I expect no less from other innocent parents

 

[vasportsmom]

just another way of saying that she can do anything out of the ordinary because she's a grieving mother, but he can't do anything out of the ordinary or it proves he's guilty. Thanks

Wow!!


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[beach]

I've got to listen to this show again. Lots of info and good comparisons to other cases where suspect parents acted similar. Very interesting discussion.

 

[tiredblondy]

If sawing off my right arm would help find my child, I'd do it. I'd do ANYTHING asked of me by law enforcement so they could rule me out and focus every able body on finding my child.

I expect no less from other innocent parents

I would too but I've lived long enough to know that others may not act like me. I'm not willing to condem someone because of that.

 

[Linda7NJ]

I would too but I've lived long enough to know that others may not act like me. I'm not willing to condem someone because of that.

If it was just that, I wouldn't either.

 

[OneLove]

just another way of saying that she can do anything out of the ordinary because she's a grieving mother, but he can't do anything out of the ordinary or it proves he's guilty. Thanks

It's important to keep events in historical content. She formed her opinion based on the actions he took. HIS actions PRECEEDED hers.

I'd be curious as to his excuse for not responding and exactly what he was doing during that period of time.

Also, by his own words, apparently he did not have a problem talking with her since he was the one who kept saying they should all come together and cooperate.

 

[beach]

just another way of saying that she can do anything out of the ordinary because she's a grieving mother, but he can't do anything out of the ordinary or it proves he's guilty. Thanks

Are you listening to the show? If not, I suggest you listen. I am only providing BRIEF cliff notes and the printed word doesn't have voice inflection.

 

[jennapuppy]

I've got to listen to this show again. Lots of info and good comparisons to other cases where suspect parents acted similar. Very interesting discussion.

I have a question:
If Dylan died in MR's truck or home, wouldn't cadaver dogs have alerted?

 

[Linda7NJ]

If it was just that, I wouldn't either.

The polygraph, is what I'm specifically speaking about

 

[tiredblondy]

MR has not acted like Ayla's poor excuse of a human being sperm donor. That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

Even if he someday is proven guilty he has not acted like that awful person referenced in my first sentence above.

 

[Confusion]

Are you listening to the show? If not, I suggest you listen. I am only providing BRIEF cliff notes and the printed word doesn't have voice inflection.

Yes, I've been listening, and trying hard to behave.

 

[jennapuppy]

If jennapuppy meant something else, I'm sure she could have said so.

Are y'all talking about me? If so, I missed the question. What was it again?

 

[Psychic Sleuth]

I know a lot of people have made comments about how much MR obviously cares about Dylan because he was willing to spend the money and time to continue to battle for custody and/or visitation for all these years. I hate to say this, but for some it becomes all about winning the fight and not so much about caring about the child. I'm not saying this is the case here, but the thought has crossed my mind.

My feelings are IF MR did something it was most likely not premeditated. I can see an argument ensuing after MR told Dylan he could not go directly to his friends as he had hoped. If MR has a temper (and was possibly drinking on top of it) it could mean trouble for Dylan. I can even see a scenario of Dylan trying to jump out of the truck or MR pulling over and telling him to get out. MR goes back and Dylan's gone. I can also see a scenario of MR hitting Dylan and knocking him out and disposing of him thinking he was gone but he wasn't. This could account for no cadaver dog hits in the vehicle or home. There are so many possible scenario's and for me common sense keeps taking me back to one person.

 

[tiredblondy]

I have a question:
If Dylan died in MR's truck or home, wouldn't cadaver dogs have alerted?

Considering the distance dogs tracked Laci Peterson I'd say the answer is yes but I'm no expert.

 

[Linda7NJ]

It's important to keep events in historical content. She formed her opinion based on the actions he took. HIS actions PRECEEDED hers.

I'd be curious as to his excuse for not responding and exactly what he was doing during that period of time.

Also, by his own words, apparently he did not have a problem talking with her since he was the one who kept saying they should all come together and cooperate.

The best predictor of behavior is past behavior.
Look at his history of relationships with his other children as well as Dylan.

 

[Confusion]

Are y'all talking about me? If so, I missed the question. What was it again?

I had just said that inconclusive can be because of something unimportant.