CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #17

[Psychic Sleuth]

just to CR500 were 501 meet(forgot the address right off my head)was 1 hour 10 min

From Walmart or the Durango Airport?

 

[ICUDOUCME]

You don't suppose Dad bought him a fishing pole and drove him to the lake that night to try it out do you? Why won't LE tell us if Dad bought a fishing pole at Walmart that night? I want to know!!!

Don't remember where I saw this, but it said LE couldn't say what MR purchased at Walmart(might not of gotten that far in the investagation I dont think)

 

[ICUDOUCME]

From Walmart or the Durango Airport?

1 hour 10 min from Durango Airport to the start of CR500(were 500 and 501 meet)

From Airport to Walmart 18 min.

 

[YidArmyRach]

He was answering her text asking if he had arrived.

Or perhaps "someone" was answering her text? A text made up of the words "yes" and a scowling face could have been sent by anyone. MOO

 

[azgrandma]

I need to apolgize to you all for not responding earlier. I know that many of you had questions and then wondered why there were no responses. I was busy yesterday and only had my phone, I'm so horrible at getting to the last post on the last thread that it would have taken me forever on my phone.
In answer to some of the questions posted and I apologize if I don't remember all of your questions.

Mark did not pay for the college education of my children, neither did I. They had great opportunities presented to them and have/are receiving their educations without my help.

Our divorce did not take years to get finalized, it was finalized in short order, within one year, but the court proceedings regarding BS went on for years.

As far as giving up parental rights, papers were drafted (twice) I signed, I don't know that MR signed, but his attorney never filed them. (I didn't have an attorney at that time) I don't know if that was MR's doing or his attorney's inaction, IMO I find it highly doubtful that an attorney would forget for several years to file legal documents, but it happened. The only part that "stuck" in the courts eyes was that he was no longer ordered to pay CS, the ability for the boys to be adopted was not legal so they were never adopted. In AZ, you can't just give up your rights to minor children, it's not that easy. That is why WE made the offer to MR.

ER and I are not besties, someone mentioned that we were very close. We are not, we aren't enemies, we aren't BFF's. Over the years, especially after ER, CR & DR visited in 2008 we had a bond if you will, we understood each other. We grew up and moved on, we had no qualms towards or about each other and knew that no matter what, we (the mothers of the children) would always be tied together. No my boys aren't hers and her boys aren't mine, but they are brothers.

What do I think happened? Have you ever had that feeling where the hair on the back of your neck stands up? Where every fiber of your being is telling you something that no matter how you look at it, you can't figure it out but you can't ignore it either. That's how I feel. Keep in mind it has been many, many years since we divorced, yes people can change, I did, I'm stronger, wiser and not so quick to believe everything I'm told. Has he changed? I don't know. I do know that any conversation or court hearings seemed the same. I do know that their are people that believe that others are idiots, that charm, charisma, wit and smiles can make them believe anything. The saying "if you can't dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with BS" is appropriate.

I don't know all the rules here, so everything I say is IMO.
It breaks my heart to think that Dylan is not with us, but the brain and gut tell me he isn't. I want him to be ok, I want him to walk in and hug his mommy, I want him to tell her of great adventures that he has had over the past 28 days, I want him to get a smartphone for Christmas, to get grounded for the rest of his life so that ER always knows exactly where he is. I would give anything in the world, I would make any deal with the devil himself if it would bring him to his mommy this very second. I just don't think that is a possibility.

I find it very strange that MR gives interviews that all start at going to eat, going to Walmart and then stops, nothing, then it picks back up at 730 am the next day. It's not because of MR, I would find that odd in any person who's child is missing. Why is there no mention of, we went to McDonald's and Walmart, drove home, put all the groceries away and then watched tv, I went to bed and DR was still watching xxxxxxxxx on tv.
Nothing is ever mentioned from Walmart to 730 am.

Even by MR's statements, IMO, there is noone that spoke with or heard from DR after 8 pm Sunday, the 18th. Not even MR.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

I would like some help looking into another MISSING WOMAN'S Case. Would anyone like something else to do? I could really use some input/help here.
Jennifer Ramsaran, MISSING
http://www.syracuse.com/news/index.ssf/2012/12/authorities_say_missing_woman.html
I am concerned. After seeing nothing new yesterday, I reached out to what appears to be her friend, via FB, and she did not respond. Additionally, Jennifer's husband has a FB page, but no capability to even message him at all. Looking around,...I am concerned at the apparent lack of interest. Anyone want to look into this with me?

sure... This woman needs to be found!

Is there a thread started for her?

I will go look for a thread now!

:seeya:

 

[Donjeta]

Or perhaps "someone" was answering her text? A text made up of the words "yes" and a scowling face could have been sent by anyone. MOO

I tend to think it was probably Dylan since if someone had started texting as him the previous evening it would have been a good idea to send a few the next morning instead of the sudden phone blackout.

 

[nervous_nellie]

[ame="http://websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?p=8645367"]NY NY - Jennifer Ramsaran, 36, Chenango County, 11 Dec 2012 - Websleuths Crime Sleuthing Community[/ame]

is this her?

 

[Chili Fries]

I am not sure they are going to get any video at all.
I guess it's possible but most people don't drive around with video camera running.

We've had this discussion before and an obvious possibility is game cameras from property used for hunting. These are motion-sensitive, so they only take a picture/record when an animal (or human) passes by. My guess is LE thought they might catch a glimpse of Mark somewhere off the beaten path, somewhere he shouldn't have been.

Any other video, maybe surveillance video from a house near the main road, could also pin down the time Mark's truck passed - and it would be very suspicious if his truck was seen on video hours after he had supposedly left the area and been home.

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

I would love to see the video of DAD at walmart!
What he bought how he was with his son.
I wouldnt be surprised if he bought a fishing pole.

It would show the dynamics between the two.

For a long while I thought dad MAY have bought Dylan a fishing pole at Walmart..

But now that more of dad's personality is being revealed through videos, articles, etc...

I think if he had bought one...dad would make a BIG DEAL of reporting that he had bought Dylan a fishing pole that night ....to let people know how generous he is with his son...

JMO

 

[Angelo]

This is interesting as Ryan asks why he can not come and Dylan replys with " IDK" - So why did he not say " Dad says its to late to visit you tonight " ?

seems a bit off IMO

Very off!

 

[Kamille]

Or perhaps "someone" was answering her text? A text made up of the words "yes" and a scowling face could have been sent by anyone. MOO

I think she said it "basically" said yes so there was likely more to it that just the one word although that information is not being released it seems.

I also noticed that once Dylan would have been in the presence of his father, based on the two text exchanges we are aware of, he did not initiate any texts but rather only answered texts coming in with short curse answers. I find that strange also.

If he was told that it was too late to go to his friends after they had eaten and gone to Walmart then that was one quick meal and grocery shopping excursion. If the plane landed at 5:40pm and they had to get out of the airport, and drive to Durango, they couldn't have been in Durango much before 6-6:15pm. By 6:43pm Dylan had already been told no to the friend visit so they had already eaten, gone grocery shopping and were on the way to Vallecito by then? Wouldn't that place them at the house by 8pm?

:waitasec:

MOO

 

[ICUDOUCME]

I find it very strange that MR gives interviews that all start at going to eat, going to Walmart and then stops, nothing, then it picks back up at 730 am the next day. It's not because of MR, I would find that odd in any person who's child is missing. Why is there no mention of, we went to McDonald's and Walmart, drove home, put all the groceries away and then watched tv, I went to bed and DR was still watching xxxxxxxxx on tv.
Nothing is ever mentioned from Walmart to 730 am.

Even by MR's statements, IMO, there is noone that spoke with or heard from DR after 8 pm Sunday, the 18th. Not even MR.

All I can say is I agree with you AZgrandma.....Trying really hard to hold back things, but looking at timelines, and filling them in for me is getting me closer to pointing fingers in one direction,but praying it couldn't be true.lease:

Thank you for sharing with the rest of us. May God Bless you and your family, and give them strength to walk threw this time of wonder.

 

[shefner]

That's funny your daughter said that because I had just tried one of those new phones and took it back two days later out of sheer frustration. I couldn't get my old flip phone turned back on fast enough. :floorlaugh:

My hubby was addicted to his old flip phone....but when it broke, after years of service, he found that AT&T didn't have them anymore. So he got the original iPhone....which he didn't want to get because it was nothing like the flip phone. Now, he will not get rid of that original iPhone. He gives his upgrades to one of the kids.
I guess he's just sentimental about things. Or stubborn. LOL

 

[shefner]

For a long while I thought dad MAY have bought Dylan a fishing pole at Walmart..

But now that more of dad's personality is being revealed through videos, articles, etc...

I think if he had bought one...dad would make a BIG DEAL of reporting that he had bought Dylan a fishing pole that night ....to let people know how generous he is with his son...

JMO

Absolutely. Great post.

 

[Seajay]

Looks like this case is pretty much solved. All the answers are here. Nothing more to do now but wait for the body to be discovered and an arrest of our favorite suspect. JMO

 

[shefner]

Looks like this case is pretty much solved. All the answers are here. Nothing more to do now but wait for the body to be discovered and an arrest of our favorite suspect. JMO

Well not really solved. I think we have gut feelings and ideas. But my worry is that we will never really know what happened to Dylan. Or that this will be one of "those" cases that will take years....and is featured on an episode of "Disappeared."

 

[katydid23]

This is the first I've heard of this August vacation together too:


Mark vividly remembers the last vacation he took with his son, a road trip to Boston in August. They visited Fenway Park and went to the Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown, N.Y. It was a dream vacation for a boy who loves baseball and is a devoted Red Sox fan.
Durango Herald


Durango Herald

wow, what an extensive vacay. It seems odd now to me that he head zero plans for this thanksgiving week. I thought it was just because he wasn't the type to make plans or something. But I guess that's not the case.

But if you compare his way of dealing with his son's November visit, what a difference. He said ' maybe, they might go bowling one day' but other than that, he had nothing set up. They didnt even know what they were doing for Thanksgiving dinner, and that was the whole reason for the trip.

Also, didn't he once say that Dylan's plans to go to his friend's house " weren't set in stone" ? Because they do seem to be pretty solid plans after seeing the texts.

 

[TxJan1971]

AZGrandma, do you know if any new searches are being organized?

 

[asyousay]

Azgrandma thank you for posting again . It can not be easy to think this about your children's father .

I am still hoping for a miracle and just hope nobody can be this evil !