CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #24

[cattlekate]

Would MR have access to the court transcript?

In my case, as a Colorado Mom - NO! However, another thing that bothers me about this case is that Dylan supposedly talked to the judge. There is nothing that I see in the MSM that substantiates that. In my experience, a child only talks to a child advocate/evaluator, who writes a very dry report.

 

[Allusonz]

I believe his attorney would. Therefore the answer to your question is yes.

I am going to have to state that this is MOO

I was one of those kids, that sat in chambers with a judge.

There was only one way that judge was going to get complete answers from me and that was after he promised to seal them, with the assurance that my mother, father, and stepfather would never see what I had said.

That was granted, and to my knowledge they remain sealed to this day.

Mind you I would now have to check on the fact that they are still sealed :waitasec:

 

[SCHMAE]

Because it's not to their advantage and meets their agenda.

Actually I thought ER or the friend of ER's is the one who said MR and DR took the baseball watching trip in summer.Of course that was a billion posts ago, so I may be wrong. I just did not think MR is the one who said it.
And whoops, I think this is in response to the post you responded to
and not yours Seajay, sorry .

 

[Confusion]

I think the divorce was 7 years ago. In VA a judge will take a child's preference into consideration at age 12. I think that varies from state to state though.

When my brother-in-law wanted to adopt my 11 year old niece (who he had been a father figure to since shortly after her birth), they were told that they had to tell her he wasn't her biological father and ask if she was okay with being adopted. My brother-in-law wanted to wait to tell her until she was 18 for some dumb reason, but she was told and adopted.

 

[vasportsmom]

In my case, as a Colorado Mom - NO! However, another thing that bothers me about this case is that Dylan supposedly talked to the judge. There is nothing that I see in the MSM that substantiates that. In my experience, a child only talks to a child advocate/evaluator, who writes a very dry report.

My best friend is currently going through a divorce. Her oldest child (13) has spoken to a GAL, child psychologist and the judge at various times.

 

[cattlekate]

Not from a dealer you can't.

They are not all federal dealers at gun shows.

 

[vasportsmom]

When my brother-in-law wanted to adopt my 11 year old niece (who he had been a father figure to since shortly after her birth), they were told that they had to tell her he wasn't her biological father and ask if she was okay with being adopted. My brother-in-law wanted to wait to tell her until she was 18 for some dumb reason, but she was told and adopted.

My oldest was adopted by my husband several years ago and the judge asked his thoughts too.

ETA: Your BIL sounds like a good guy. It takes a special type to take on another mans child and raise that child as his own. I have a lot of respect for men that are willing to do it.

 

[Money Girl]

The lack of Thanksgiving plans being indicative of murder are ridiculous.

Lots of times, we have Thanksgiving dinner at Cracker Barrell. It is delicious. We don't decide until the last minute. Up until the day before Thanksgiving, you can order a complete meal (cooked whole Turkey and all) from local grocery stores. You can even order a Turkey from Bojangles.

And, then, like MR, you can always consider having Thanksgiving dinner with family - just a phone call away.

 

[Amster]

Was Dylan being adopted by moms bf?

 

[SCHMAE]

I've tried to come up with a list of the status of MR's fridge and people's belief on whether MR is guilty or not.

Fridge=empty, MR=not guilty: He was going to go shopping later for Thanksgiving.
Fridge=empty, MR=guilty: He didn't buy food because he knew he wouldn't need it.
Fridge=full, MR=not guilty: He bought food for Thanksgiving dinner.
Fridge=full, MR=guilty: He bought food to cover his tracks.

All of these statements are possible. I don't think you can determine the guilt or innocence of MR based on the contents of his refrigerator, especially since we don't know the status of his fridge.

LMAO TKS PAUL! I think you've summed it up ... He's MR if he do and MR if he don't !

 

[Cardinal47]

That doesn't mean it is necessarily legal for the attorney to share it with MR.

Now you made me giggle. Do you know any attorneys? LOL

Sorry I couldn't help it.

I just bet one of those little buggers left it on their desk while they went to get themselves a cup of coffee and somebody sitting there took a look. :blushing:

 

[Psychic Sleuth]

Was Dylan being adopted by moms bf?

Impossible unless MR were willing to give up his parental rights.

 

[Cardinal47]

But only links and discussions to/about the one he posted are allowed here. WS doesn't do rumors. MOO

Don't shoot the messenger! :seeya:

 

[vasportsmom]

Was Dylan being adopted by moms bf?

No or at least I wouldn't think so. I was just replying to Confusion but I can see how that would be confusing.

 

[cattlekate]

Was Dylan being adopted by moms bf?

Oh my gosh! No one has ever discussed this! What an excellent question, based on MR's promise to give up parental rights to his other two sons so they could be adopted by their stepdad!!! Did the option of MR giving up his parental rights ever come up in the summer, 2012 proceedings? The court proceedings must tell a lot. LE has them.

We do not.

 

[PaulR]

Now you made me giggle. Do you know any attorneys? LOL

Sorry I couldn't help it.

I just bet one of those little buggers left it on their desk while they went to get themselves a cup of coffee and somebody sitting there took a look. :blushing:

I do know a few lawyers! And all of them are still on the bar because they haven't pulled that kind of stunt.

 

[PaulR]

In my case, as a Colorado Mom - NO! However, another thing that bothers me about this case is that Dylan supposedly talked to the judge. There is nothing that I see in the MSM that substantiates that. In my experience, a child only talks to a child advocate/evaluator, who writes a very dry report.

By the way, where was it stated that Dylan talked to the judge?

 

[Cardinal47]

Impossible unless MR were willing to give up his parental rights.

Well didn't he give up his rights to his other sons per azgrandma for $40,000 back child support?

MOO

 

[Confusion]

Oh my gosh! No one has ever discussed this! What an excellent question, based on MR's promise to give up parental rights to his other two sons so they could be adopted by their stepdad!!! Did the option of MR giving up his parental rights ever come up in the summer, 2012 proceedings? The court proceedings must tell a lot. LE has them.

We do not.

If he was giving up his rights, I doubt that he'd be given visitation. MOO

No or at least I wouldn't think so. I was just replying to Confusion but I can see how that would be confusing.

Blame it all on me! Growing up, I was always the responsible child. If anything went wrong, I was usually responsible. :blushing:

 

[Allusonz]

I agree. I think it much more likely he simply told the judge he wanted
to live with his mom and exactly why, as the judge would want supporting reasoning for that. Not negatives about his dad but positives about his life in Colorado Springs.

And I think it likely that MR "perceived" that as an insult, or at least a HUGE disappointment.

I know for a fact that the judge asked me much more than this.

I was asked everything from what I was fed, what everyone did with me (the things parents are to do with kids), how each one reacted in various circumstances, and far too many more to list here.

MOO