CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #27

[azgrandma]

But MR doesn't give interviews to the press! That's unpossible! :what:

Only to defend himself, never to plead for Dylan.

 

[azgrandma]

It would be a great idea if the next rally was held outside Elaine's home. It is possible that she had discussed Dylan's planned trip with someone there and they possibly abducted him.

MOO

Really????
Elaine has spoken with the media, spoken with her son, spoken with her stepsons, she was hundreds of miles away. She has searched, arranged fund raisers.
The rally is to try to get MR to talk, and although he didn't answer questions about Dylan, it seems to have worked.

 

[Eileen730]

Why dosent Mark Redwine stay home on saturday and walk out of his house and hug his son
and take his ex wifes hand and say ill help in any way I can lets stop all this?


He dosent and wont because he cant!

JMO

 

[SCHMAE]

Why dosent Mark Redwine stay home on saturday and walk out of his house and hug his son
and take his ex wifes hand and say ill help in any way I can lets stop all this?


He dosent and wont because he cant!

JMO

I've thought about that too. If he's innocent and this is truly just spinning out of control with mud thrown his way, why not reach out and say let's sort this out right now. I have been falsely accused of much MUCH less things, not even crimes but more misunderstandings where someone thought I wronged them. I was determined to settle it, talk it out, explain my side until they SEE my side. If I've done nothing wrong, then it's my job to either A) make clear my position until it's understood and everyone know what really happened or B) shut my mouth and just accept that I'm being bad mouthed by others.

Those are the only 2 things you can do in that situation. MR doesn't want to do either ........right ?

 

[azgrandma]

Awww Grandma ! I'm so sorry that folks are belittling your family Remember you determine who you are and the words of a stranger hiding behind a user name and keyboard mean nothing in your life. Let it roll off your back and go on with your life. Your input has been invaluable here and
your support for Dylan speaks highly of your character . You do it for your kids and if everyone put their kids first , what a wonderful world it would be !
Stay strong girl !

Thank you! I've told so many people that I am now a duck, everything just rolls off my back.

 

[TxLady2]

I would think it would depend on the content of those texts.

I just read the latest article..

I am still sitting here::fence: on what I think happened to Dylan.

(great synopsis of theories/possibilities upstream Cluciano!)

If those texts came very frequently and were menacing or threatening, yes, I think charges could be filed. My guess is, he won't do that, it was an empty threat just to get them to back off a little, IMO.

I do think they are going about it in the wrong way, though. Approaching someone with anger and bitterness and throwing out accusations is not the way to get them to talk to you. They should know this.

They need a mediator to sit between them and get a civil conversation going. But I would advise the mediator to wear body armor and a face mask, because it would likely turn ugly pretty quick.

 

[Eileen730]

BBM - his family.

Like it or not, family is all we have and honestly there is drama in every family. Most aren't played out in public. But then again, most don't have a missing child either.

I've thought about that too. If he's innocent and this is truly just spinning out of control with mud thrown his way, why not reach out and say let's sort this out right now. I have been falsely accused of much MUCH less things, not even crimes but more misunderstandings where someone thought I wronged them. I was determined to settle it, talk it out, explain my side until they SEE my side. If I've done nothing wrong, then it's my job to either A) make clear my position until it's understood and everyone know what really happened or B) shut my mouth and just accept that I'm being bad mouthed by others.

Those are the only 2 things you can do in that situation. MR doesn't want to do either ........right ?

Exactly!
I dont think he can say he was falsly accused if the accusations are true. IMO.
Why remain silent if you have nothing to hide I dont understand it.

 

[Bravo]

Dylan has his Mother,Brother,Step Father (to be) other Family and friends who love him to come home to. A life. The only drama I see happening is what his Father has created,now and over the years. Elaine I believe moved on. Ages ago. MR not so much. IMO

 

[Confusion]

Thanks Paul!

 

[Eileen730]

I think If Dylan was ok on Monday morning someone would have had a text message from him.

Whats the first thing a kid does when he wakes up? Look at the phone.
then sends text or many texts.
that young man wasnt there that morning im sorry thats MO

 

[mck16]

Can you file harassment against FAMILY MEMBERS for texting you too often? I doubt it.

Depends on what they are texting. I had to threaten to do that to get my dil to stop threatening me with my grandchildren. jmo

 

[Eileen730]

As I see it MR dosent want to have a sit down with his ex and his son.

 

[NC Analyzer]

I've thought about that too. If he's innocent and this is truly just spinning out of control with mud thrown his way, why not reach out and say let's sort this out right now. I have been falsely accused of much MUCH less things, not even crimes but more misunderstandings where someone thought I wronged them. I was determined to settle it, talk it out, explain my side until they SEE my side. If I've done nothing wrong, then it's my job to either A) make clear my position until it's understood and everyone know what really happened or B) shut my mouth and just accept that I'm being bad mouthed by others.

Those are the only 2 things you can do in that situation. MR doesn't want to do either ........right ?

Absolutely agree with this.
I guess I just don't understand a parent (who claims to be innocent) doing NOTHING productive to resolve this situation. As I see this play out, I see a lot of finger pointing on one side followed by a "poor me", I'm an innocent victim", on the other side. The "poor me" side could put a halt to this with ONE, detailed MSM interview that answers some pretty incriminating, albeit circumstantial, questions regarding the events that took place after they drove out of the WalMart parking lot. If "poor me" doesn't want to do an interview with MSM, then why not agree to sit down with CR/ER and a neutral mediator if necessary, and answer their questions? If "poor me" cannot manage to bring himself to answer these questions, I can't help but think that "poor me" is going to end up facing this kind of scrutiny for the rest of his life. But then again, I actually know a few people who enjoy playing the victim. Perhaps we are seeing another one who relishes this role. I don't know. All I DO know is all of this could easily be resolved, but the one who can resolve it appears not to want this and thus, I have no sympathy, kind words/thoughts or understanding for this person. JMO

 

[The Cheese]

Why love it?:moo:

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[nursebeeme]

based on personal information that is posted on the "other" facebook page we are not linking to it or discussing it right now.

 

[scorekeeper]

Absolutely agree with this.
I guess I just don't understand a parent (who claims to be innocent) doing NOTHING productive to resolve this situation. As I see this play out, I see a lot of finger pointing on one side followed by a "poor me", I'm an innocent victim", on the other side. The "poor me" side could put a halt to this with ONE, detailed MSM interview that answers some pretty incriminating, albeit circumstantial, questions regarding the events that took place after they drove out of the WalMart parking lot. If "poor me" doesn't want to do an interview with MSM, then why not agree to sit down with CR/ER and a neutral mediator if necessary, and answer their questions? If "poor me" cannot manage to bring himself to answer these questions, I can't help but think that "poor me" is going to end up facing this kind of scrutiny for the rest of his life. But then again, I actually know a few people who enjoy playing the victim. Perhaps we are seeing another one who relishes this role. I don't know. All I DO know is all of this could easily be resolved, but the one who can resolve it appears not to want this and thus, I have no sympathy, kind words/thoughts or understanding for this person. JMO

What NC said!!

He can stop this madness but I don't think he wants to. These actions/inactions are a way of life for him. He plays his littlebig games with peoples lives. He loves to create situations that causes others emotionals to run high.

He holds ALL the answers and he loves feeling this way. Control, Control, Control....:furious::furious:

JMO

 

[SCHMAE]

http://durangoherald.com/article/20130123/NEWS01/130129818/-1/s

MSM so it's ok to post, right ?

 

[SCHMAE]

I dont know how to outright delete a post .

 

[Bravo]

I dont know how to outright delete a post .

I think your fine. It's MSM.

 

[scorekeeper]

http://durangoherald.com/article/20130123/NEWS01/130129818/-1/s

MSM so it's ok to post, right ?

Also from article:


“I firmly believe that this is just a misguided attempt to draw attention to me when the reality of the fact is, you know, we don’t know where Dylan is at,” he said. “I have no idea where Dylan is at. I have no involvement with where Dylan is at.”


Mark Redwine said he won’t be at his house Saturday morning during the rally. When asked what he will be doing instead, he said he’ll be doing “anything but being around here.”

Wrong Answer!