CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #29

[mck16]

It's probably not important, but why would it have a separate heating system? I know several people with similar styled homes, and they all have heat in every room. TIA

Was it that cold? Didn't DR arrive in shorts and no jacket? I am not sure what the temp was that evening. ty

 

[scorekeeper]

FB is going to find DR after all this time, since November, 2012? Most of the people of the FMDR and the DRN don't even live near Co. Sharing the missing flier online is going to find DR? I love the awareness, but IMO, that isn't going to find DR.

JMO

If Dylan was abducted and taken away from the area, yeah FB might be the avenue that helps find him.

But, no it won't help, if he was killed and disposed of in the area.

 

[katydid23]

We don't even know if he needs to, unless you go by FB. I don't live by FB.

K. Let's do this again:

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/1212/03/ng.01.html

Elaine, you have taken and passed a police polygraph, is that correct?

REDWINE: Yes.

GRACE: And what kind of questions did they ask you?

REDWINE: You know, just basic questions, just trying to see if I was a good candidate for the polygraph.

GRACE: What do you know about the father`s polygraph?

REDWINE: You know, I don`t know much. I know that, you know, everyone is encouraging him to take that. So hopefully, he will do that soon so we can get him out of the picture, and you know, focus on where Dylan is.

GRACE: Has the father taken a polygraph?

REDWINE: You know, I`m not sure. I know he`s been asked to.

GRACE: Do you know if he took it?

REDWINE: I do not at this time, no.

GRACE: Is it your understanding that he`s failed a polygraph?

REDWINE: No, I don`t think he failed a polygraph. You know, I don`t know the specifics behind that. I don`t think he necessarily failed. But you know, I don`t have any information on that. So it`s real -- it`s real tough for me to answer that question.

GRACE: Elaine, when you were speaking earlier to our producers, you mentioned it was your understanding that he had failed a polygraph.

REDWINE: No, I didn`t say he had failed the polygraph.

GRACE: OK. Good. I`m glad you can clarify that. So what is your understanding, then?

REDWINE: I think it was inconclusive.

GRACE: Is he being asked to take another?

REDWINE: I believe so, yes, he is.
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Such a mess with what ER said ^^^, but I will not call her out. Not my thing. She's a mom who misses her son as MR does. JMO

But yet CR said: http://www.pinerivertimes.com/news.asp?artid=1112
We just need to put pressure on the fact that mark hasn't taken a polygraph and that no effort has been shown.

Oy vey!!!!! Not calling either out, but they do need to get their act together sooner rather than later. IMO.

I think it is fairly evident that MR took an initial test, it was inconclusive, and now he is refusing to retake it. I think there is a consensus on thaT. JMO

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[Ransom]

Night all this polygraph thing, yet again, is doing me and with all the FB rumors. UGH.

So glad LE doesn't listen/go by FB b.s.

JMO.

 

[Confusion]

I would start looking in other directions if he volunteered to retake the test and passed with flying colors. I bet a lot of people would.

Who would tell anyone if he did pass one? Surely not ER or CR, and LE has said they don't discuss the results. I have a feeling that if it were stated that he passed, most people (not necessarily you) would just say it was a lie anyway.

 

[mck16]

It was just a thought! I live in the country with electric heat, which is expensive. Also each room here has it's own thrermostat. If I had a room above a garage, which was not in use all the time, I wouldn't have the heat on. jmo lol Unless company was coming to use the room, it would be on and ready.

Too much cold air in the garage being under a room. I doubt many have their garages insulated or heated. jmo

That makes sense and I can see that being the case. But I would also think MR would turn the heat on in anticipation of DR's visit. jmo

 

[katydid23]

Night all this polygraph thing, yet again, is doing me and with all the FB rumors. UGH.

So glad LE doesn't listen/go by FB b.s.

JMO.

Actually, I think LE has a special department that does nothing but look at all of the Facebooks, Instagrams and Tweets. They gather quite a bit of their intel that way. JMO

 

[azgrandma]

Everyone always says I would be out looking for my child. I also wonder where would one look and how would one look. To me that is an impossible task for one to do own their own.

Another thing I am sure that MR is back to work. He has no one to support him and I am sure he has his own expenses to take care of. His comment about passing out fliers to other truck drivers rings true to me. And I think that is a great tool to get DR's picture all over the place. jmo

I agree that what a person wants to do and what they can do are totally different. Sadly, life and the responsibilities of life do not stop during difficult times. You have to work, you have to pay bills. I would NEVER fault a parent for having to return to work. I also have absolutely NO reason to not believe that he is handing out fliers to other truck drivers. Perhaps this is what he feels is helping to find Dylan and what any parent does to find thier child is admirable to me as long as they are actively doing something, anything.

I've never thought that MR doesn't care for his children, I've never thought that he isn't hurting. I do think that much of what is occuring (rally and bad mouthing) could all have been avoided, that turmoil/drama whatever anyone wants to call it, has been caused by MR's inaction and unwillingness to speak with ER. I do believe that IF there is a sit down, with a neutral party, it may change opinions.

 

[cluciano63]

I am pretty sure we would know from Cory if MR took and passed another LD test. i do not think he would hold that back, it is what he wants done.

 

[Confusion]

It was just a thought! I live in the country with electric heat, which is expensive. Also each room here has it's own thrermostat. If I had a room above a garage, which was not in use all the time, I wouldn't have the heat on. jmo lol Unless company was coming to use the room, it would be on and ready.

Too much cold air in the garage being under a room. I doubt many have their garages insulated or heated. jmo

I guess that might be different. Most people I know (Minnesota, Wisconsin and North Dakota) heat with natural gas, and tend to heat the entire house. If it's well insulated, it doesn't make THAT much difference (the bill will break you either way when it's -20 outside!)

 

[scorekeeper]

It was just a thought! I live in the country with electric heat, which is expensive. Also each room here has it's own thrermostat. If I had a room above a garage, which was not in use all the time, I wouldn't have the heat on. jmo lol Unless company was coming to use the room, it would be on and ready.

Too much cold air in the garage being under a room. I doubt many have their garages insulated or heated. jmo

by the wood stacked on the porch, it appears as if Mark also has some type of wood burning device.

 

[Angelonline]

Please stop all bickering and snarkiness, agree to disagree and move on. I have had to remove several posts.

 

[aust amateur slueth]

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MR could easily get the focus off him by answering questions that ER and CR have, he has not done so and that is very strange if Dylan is his primary focus.

 

[SCHMAE]

If Dylan was abducted and taken away from the area, yeah FB might be the avenue that helps find him.

But, no it won't help, if he was killed and disposed of in the area.

Double thanks. That is exactly right.
At the same a lot of us suspect MR we are still sharing and posting pics
and spreading the word and the reality is those ' shares' are only beneficial
if a stranger or someone took him away. Great point Score ! I hadn't even
thought of that .

 

[Ransom]

If Dylan was abducted and taken away from the area, yeah FB might be the avenue that helps find him.

But, no it won't help, if he was killed and disposed of in the area.

BBM: HOW? DR is going to be seen out and about? I don't think so, but that's JMO. Hidden is hidden and FB won't assist with that, IMO.

DR/ER already said (on FB) that Mark would never hurt DR. After that, the only thing they are left with is ... Mark hid him somewhere. Just don't agree with that. Can't keep a 13 yo hidden for long. JMO. ER/CR will reverse the "Mark wouldn't hurt DR" soon, IMO. They have no other choice now. IMO.

Hate this back and forth stuff. WE all want DR found and found safely. ALL of us.

 

[FruitTingles]

Hi all. Just quickly popping in while Anaya is napping. Just wanted to say that I miss you all and this place! Though I am absent a lot of the time, I am still always thinking of Dylan. I hope one day soon I will be able to find time to catch up on the threads that I have missed since giving birth. Please don't forget me guys! I try to pop in when I can! :seeya:

 

[mck16]

I agree that what a person wants to do and what they can do are totally different. Sadly, life and the responsibilities of life do not stop during difficult times. You have to work, you have to pay bills. I would NEVER fault a parent for having to return to work. I also have absolutely NO reason to not believe that he is handing out fliers to other truck drivers. Perhaps this is what he feels is helping to find Dylan and what any parent does to find thier child is admirable to me as long as they are actively doing something, anything.

I've never thought that MR doesn't care for his children, I've never thought that he isn't hurting. I do think that much of what is occuring (rally and bad mouthing) could all have been avoided, that turmoil/drama whatever anyone wants to call it, has been caused by MR's inaction and unwillingness to speak with ER. I do believe that IF there is a sit down, with a neutral party, it may change opinions.

I appreciate you and your posts but I think most of this could have been avoided if ER had not blamed MR for doing something to Dylan very early on. As far as any interaction between the two of them that is all I remember her saying. So in my opinion he did not start it. jmo

 

[azgrandma]

Hi all. Just quickly popping in while Anaya is napping. Just wanted to say that I miss you all and this place! Though I am absent a lot of the time, I am still always thinking of Dylan. I hope one day soon I will be able to find time to catch up on the threads that I have missed since giving birth. Please don't forget me guys! I try to pop in when I can! :seeya:

I find it cute when new mommies think they might have time. Congratulations again and enjoy every moment, they grow too quickly!

 

[katydid23]

I appreciate you and your posts but I think most of this could have been avoided if ER had not blamed MR for doing something to Dylan very early on. As far as any interaction between the two of them that is all I remember her saying. So in my opinion he did not start it. jmo

i think he did start it by not replying to her or CR's initial texts and calls. I could only imagine how upsetting that must have been at the time, having no answers or replies from him under such traumatic circumstances. JMO

 

[IHAVENOCLUE]

Hi all. Just quickly popping in while Anaya is napping. Just wanted to say that I miss you all and this place! Though I am absent a lot of the time, I am still always thinking of Dylan. I hope one day soon I will be able to find time to catch up on the threads that I have missed since giving birth. Please don't forget me guys! I try to pop in when I can! :seeya:

Welcome, lil momma!

You will probably have to wait until Anaya goes away to college before you get the time to catch up again on WS!

:giggle: