WRT the above BBM.. IMO regardless of my opinion on when/what/how/where the wide, gaping divide came to be, its been IMO clear that the dynamics are not going to have Dylan's parents(and immediate core family) a united force working relentlessly until their son/brother is found, alive or deceased whatever the case may be..just to FIND HIM and bring their young loved one home..IMO I've known that united front is just not going to be.
So, impo I've never looked at it from a standpoint of Mark being "with"..or joined.. or coming together with Elaine in endeavors such as FB for their son.. IMO there are multiple issues as to why that'd never happen..IMO possibly even certain personal dynamics are likely to be some of the contributing factors to why...such as some of dad's personal dynamics that Cory publicly shared today..that when Mark Redwine believes himself to be "right" that he has zero hesitation of being upfront, and center, with spotlight on him continuing to stand up for what he knows as the truth, as in what's "right".
IMO MOST WOULD AGREE nothing like that is happening, tho.. and imo not happening for any cause be it Dylan or otherwise..its just absent.
IMO IT ISNT HAPPENING and yet THIS IS HIS YOUNGEST SON BEING GONE, NO LONGER HERE, AND NOT A CLUE IF HE IS EVEN ALIVE that Mark Redwine is uncharacteristicly NOT at ALL standing firm, not backing down, relentlessly pursuing that he is right, that he is not involved in his son's no longer being here, and he'll be damned to back down even a step from relentlessly pursuing FINDING DYLAN ..
Because IMO the fact is that Mark's greatest thing he's got on his side is that his dogged determination, and steadfast aggressive hunt for Dylan that in the end when this precious young man, his son is found..then so, too is Mark's innocence shoved in everyone's face without Mark Redwine ever so much as uttering a word to anyone about his once again standing his ground, with no backing down for what he knew was "right"...that "right" being the TRUTH and what's been the truth all along..
None of that in any way whatsoever requires Mark Redwine joining forces with Dylan's mom and brother to show a united front for Dylan to be found.. Mark Redwine is a grown man with alotta years of life experiences under his belt, a man fully capable of standing up for himself, and even going the distance in standing his ground when he knows he's "right" even if others may not agree or see it the way Mark does( I'm speaking of issues IN NO WAY related to Dylan or Dylan's disappearance)..
So, why not now?.. why not here in the situation of literally epic proportions when your youngest son's entire life is whats on the line?..why not use that hard headed aggression of firmly standing your ground, not backing down and be at that forefront in place of Dylan...be the voice for Dylan who cannot speak because he's gone.. plowing forward with that same fierce determination and hard
stance..using that aggression hunting for your baby boy?
Just as Mark made mention of in today's interview he had made or come upon a connection of what he found to be an excellent avenue of raising funds for Dylan(ie. The raffle he mentioned).. He was irritated with the fact that he says Elaine did not choose to pursue this particular avenue..well..IMO as briefly described above Mark's a man who knows exactly how to get things done, even standing his ground if need be.. and there is absolutely NOTHING OR NO ONE that is stopping him, blocking him, nor in any way keeping him from getting things done in this search for Dylan..There's absolutely no reason that Mark as the other parent to this young, missing child, Dylan can't seek out and move forward with any avenue that he sees fitting that will help find his son..including raising money if that's what he thinks is needed to find Dylan, or if he feels it would somehow provide better or bigger services to aid in the search for his son...
Well..here's a lucrative opportunity according to him that he's complaining his ex wife didn't pursue..well..then IMO step up and get to it..in his opinion this is something that needs to be done to help his son...he came upon or sought out this opportunity so move forward with it.. Elaine has avenues that have already proven successful in raising moneys to aid in the search of Dylan being found and brought home.. she is already well into working various avenues...so, too can Mark be doing the exact same thing, it doesn't have to be just one parent that must being following and pursuing all avenues..so, too can the other parent and anyone else he'd like to bring in to help or assist him in any way.
(* THE ONLY REASON THAT I AM USING THE RAISING FUNDS AVENUE IS DIRECTLY DUE TO MARK'S STATEMENT TODAY ABOUT IT..*)
But yet again I reflect on what's happening and that Mark's uncharacteristically not using his hard headed determination and ability to weather the storm when he knows he's "right" about something... to plant himself in the forefront standing his ground when he knows he's "right" with the ain't nobody gonna be able to prove any different type fortitude.. all of these abilities and strengths would be absolutely priceless at this moment in time when it counts the most with your youngest child's entire life hanging in the balance..
But that's not happening!:headbang:
Mark has much to say WRT what he feels Elaine is doing wrong, about what Elaine's not doing but should be doing, about what Cory is not doing as well as letting everyone know whose fault it really is that Cory has less than an overflowing heart full of love for his dad because that's due to Elaine as well(in that Cory's having issues with dad is the fault of mom because she hates Mark).. OK, now that we have a detailed description of what Elaine and Cory are failing to do correctly in dad's opinion, but....
Again we see nothing happening with Mark using what could be priceless advantages to forging ahead in finding Dylan.. Mark using those type of stubborn-ish steadfast determination abilities that he's used for proving when he knows he's "right" .. he could be taking that similar stance in this fight of a lifetime in finding his son, Dylan!...
But that's NOT HAPPENING!!!!!!!!:banghead:
