CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #32

[Eileen730]

I think Tx missed her calling she should be working for CSI or FBI lol

 

[azgrandma]

Sorry for the delay. I'm on it now and will see how much I get done before I crash!

you are the best!!

 

[Eileen730]

I feel so heartbroken for Elaine!

I just cant wait to see Marks!
What are the odds we wont get to see it?

 

[Eileen730]

A good Quote from Elaines interview!

"His Dad wants everyone to think he just disappeared!"


Oh and this one!

"Trapped in the world of the missing!"

 

[azgrandma]

Of the many interviews with parents of missing children I have seen, there are those who are genuine and those who are not. I am not a professional, but all the same have spent many years studying human nature, psychology, body language, expressions, speech patterns. And, point being, I'm not bad at spotting BS when it's in front of me.

Elaine's interview demonstrates, in my opinion and observation, every possible sign that she only wants her son back, or to know what has happened to him at the least.

Her anger is palpable, her worry also - and grief, for his absence. Her use of past tense when speaking of Dylan is in my estimation no cause for suspicion, as it may be in many other cases. In the context of the whole interview, and the amount of time that has passed, I see this as acceptance that Dylan is gone. Not hopelessness - just a realistic pov.

I'm not saying I'm a total expert. But in my mind, I now hold no doubt that Elaine does not know where her son is.

I am very much looking forward to seeing the interview with Dylan's father.

BBM - I lost my mother suddenly a few years ago, my siblings and I all spoke of her in the present & past tense for almost a year. IMO it was us learning to accept it, sometimes we could and it was past tense, sometimes we couldn't and it was present tense.
Amazing how your mind works
ETA I agree that it is towards acceptance

 

[Eileen730]

I don't remember if Cory actually said he "failed" the poly. But the interviewer has tweeted that Mark has said his test was inconclusive and that could be where Cory got the information from (Mark). Regardless of where it came from MR confirmed it to the reporter.

BBM - I lost my mother suddenly a few years ago, my siblings and I all spoke of her in the present & past tense for almost a year. IMO it was us learning to accept it, sometimes we could and it was past tense, sometimes we couldn't and it was present tense.
Amazing how your mind works

Sadly and this is just MO I think Elaine knows something very bad has happend to her son, but in the same light cant give up the hope that just maybe he is ok.
Just like AzG has said she belives the worst but cant give up on the best!

 

[aust amateur slueth]

Why did this reporter leave out the best stuff from her interview with Elaine?
That interview did a great disservice to her.

I think the editing was woeful, the interviewer wasn't all that good either.

My heart was in my throat watching ER, my heart breaks for her.

 

[SCHMAE]

One thing that really stood out to me was she mentioned so many of the same things many of us have said here. She doesn't believe he started walking then got abducted, that an abductor would pack his bag, he wouldn't have hitchhiiked, he would have called or texted for a ride and the something could have happened Sunday night.

Good point. If he had decided to try to walk to his friends, why take his whole backpack? That would just weigh him down. Most kids travel light , especially boys and especially for a one day outing. It just clicked in my head that he would almost certainly NOT have taken a backpack if he were going to attempt to walk or hitch to his friends' house !

 

[Eileen730]

I think the editing was woeful, the interviewer wasn't all that good either.

My heart was in my throat wastching ER, my heart breaks for her.

I do not think she is a very good reporter! Not at all!

 

[DylansMom34]

I hope Melissa posts Cory's, Bender's, and Dylan's buddies full interviews too. I'd like to see everything.

I'm kind of glad there is some time before Mark's interview is up. I personally would have not given myself a break between the two and Elaine's interview kicked me in the stomach very hard as a mom. I am thankful for whatever technical (or other issues) kept it from being posted. Hopefully it will be posted today and I'll be able to watch it when I get home from work. Dylan's feeling a little better (he has been fighting some sort of bug) but may be home with his dad again today.

 

[DylansMom34]

Just read that Kevin Torres is driving to Durango today. I'm thinking he'll be going to Dylan's birthday event tomorrow.

 

[Eileen730]

This is also one to ponder!

She said there was nothing there of Dylans not even a sock so where and when did the sweat pants come tolight! She said nothing!

 

[Eileen730]

I don't remember if Cory actually said he "failed" the poly. But the interviewer has tweeted that Mark has said his test was inconclusive and that could be where Cory got the information from (Mark). Regardless of where it came from MR confirmed it to the reporter.

Cory was with his dad those first few days wasnt he? He maybe went with him?
Just a thought!

 

[SCHMAE]

Elaine Redwine:
My family -- my friends. You know… I mean…I’m not sure I’m really holding up. I’m managing day by day because I look forward to that day when I can see his face and that gets me through one day… to the next


From TxJan's transcribe, tks so much , btw.

 

[SCHMAE]

Two things strike me
ER had lots of friends right near by that would have given him a ride if he needed it. By saying that it seems that DR had those friends' numbers and knew them well enough to call if he needed a ride. But he did not. Could one of those friends be a bad person and ER didn't know ? Maybe DR did call them ? Food for thought. Second, they checked everywhere for his shoe print. I'm assuming she means as soon as she got there while prints would still be fresh. But there wasn't snow then, correct? So if he were walking on pavement there would be no shoe print, right?

Third, sorry ! TxJan's transcribe again :
Elaine Redwine:
The judge made it very clear when he spoke with Dylan one on one that he would not release those records. They were released to law enforcement but they won’t release them to anybody other than law enforcement

What the HECK is in those sealed records. This statement makes it sound as if Dylan was very concerned about what he was going to say and would only say it once he knew it would be sealed and no one, more specifically MR, would never see it . So if it's so bad, why would the judge even allow him to go ? It cannot be that bad, right?

 

[FruitTingles]

I've had a very unsettled bubba today so have had no chance to pop in and do my usual very quick skim read. Can someone please update me? lease: please tell me there is some news? ???

 

[Eileen730]

Two things strike me
ER had lots of friends right near by that would have given him a ride if he needed it. By saying that it seems that DR had those friends' numbers and knew them well enough to call if he needed a ride. But he did not. Could one of those friends be a bad person and ER didn't know ? Maybe DR did call them ? Food for thought. Second, they checked everywhere for his shoe print. I'm assuming she means as soon as she got there while prints would still be fresh. But there wasn't snow then, correct? So if he were walking on pavement there would be no shoe print, right?

Naaa JMO
He didnt call anyone remember.
Mom tried to text him sunday night and monday morning!

 

[SCHMAE]

I've had a very unsettled bubba today so have had no chance to pop in and do my usual very quick skim read. Can someone please update me? lease: please tell me there is some news? ???

No real news Fruit
But the reporter who interviewed the parents last week has put up full uncut versions , so we are reading / watching those. First up is mom's . MR' should be available to view later today .

 

[SCHMAE]

Naaa JMO
He didnt call anyone remember.
Mom tried to text him sunday night and monday morning!

I agree ,, just saying ' what if' .
No telling what that 9:37 txt was !

 

[katydid23]

I agree ,, just saying ' what if' .
No telling what that 9:37 txt was !

But if he had texted/messaged/called someone for a ride, wouldn't LE know that by now? At least we HOPE they would.