CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #36

[mck16]

I don't believe he had an XBOX with him.

Didn't the reporter say she saw some kind of game box or something at the house? tia

 

[margarita25]

I don't believe he had an XBOX with him.

What about at MR's house?

 

[Confusion]

Didn't the reporter say she saw some kind of game box or something at the house? tia

That was at the mother's house. MOO

 

[otto]

 

[nikb]

Didn't the reporter say she saw some kind of game box or something at the house? tia

AFAIK it was at his Mom's house. I haven't seen or read anything about him having one at his Dad's. Sorry, don't have a link... I recall reading it but it'd take me awhile to find the link.

 

[TxJan1971]

Didn't the reporter say she saw some kind of game box or something at the house? tia

BBM
They searched computers. They found his ipod texting account. I saw a game console in his room... hmm. .. I'll ask.

Https://twitter.com/MelissaBlasius

 

[NC Analyzer]

What are the red flags? tia

You know, I'd really like to hear that one myself. All I've ever seen is a mom whose heart is broken and she is beyond desperate to find her son. She has worked tirelessly to get the word out about her son, held fund raisers for him, gave interviews to local and national press and participated in searching for him for weeks. The only thing she ever did was say she thought dad was responsible and knows more than he's telling anyone. So what? If I thought my ex did something to my child, I would sure as H be shouting that from the rooftops. I think she has shown considerable restraint considering the circumstances.
JMO

 

[azgrandma]

http://www.apal.co/RV/6893/31395

2343 CR 500, Vallecito, CO

Dad's whereabouts were verified by LE during his trip away on 11/19/12. Dad returned home by 11:30 am (took a 2-3 hour nap). Checked a neighborhood kid/friend. Tracked down Bayfield friends at 4:19 per friends Texts to DR. Went to Bayfield Marshall's office and filed a report. Ex-wife notified by text and she filed a report to the La Plata Co Sheriff's office in Durango around the same time.

BBM - MR said in the uncut interview with MB that he went to T's house, the friend down the road and nobody was home, so then he went to N's house and both R & N were there.

 

[NC Analyzer]

BBM
They searched computers. They found his ipod texting account. I saw a game console in his room... hmm. .. I'll ask.

Https://twitter.com/MelissaBlasius

She was referring to his room at mom's house. They showed pictures of his room after that interview and you could see his game console if I recall correctly.

MOO

 

[TxJan1971]

Otto,
Two things:
1) Reporter Melissa Blasius did interviews with both parents (individually). Appropriate links to each transcript are available on the Media/Timeline thread.

2) Melissa followed up questions from folks via Twitter. One involved polygraphs of parents

Here's her tweet regarding parents polygraphs.

Both did. Mom says she passed. Dad says detectives told him his was inconclusive. He's says he's willing to retake it.

Https://twitter.com/MelissaBlasius

 

[TxJan1971]

BBM - MR said in the uncut interview with MB that he went to T's house, the friend down the road and nobody was home, so then he went to N's house and both R & N were there.

MOO
It depends on which version of MR's you want to believe.

Version #1 - he went to T's house and T hadn't seen him.
Version #2 - he went to T's house and no one answered the door

 

[cluciano63]

I do not have any idea if MR is guilty, or simply a jerk or a bad parent to his other sons...but what I really do not understand is hostility toward ER. That just blows me away.

 

[NC Analyzer]

BBM - MR said in the uncut interview with MB that he went to T's house, the friend down the road and nobody was home, so then he went to N's house and both R & N were there.

And per LE statement, he didn't report Dylan missing until shortly before 6 pm. What I can't figure out is what was he doing between the time he texted mom and finally got around to going to the Marshall's office. Really? An hour before he reports it, but by his own words it "hit him" that something was seriously wrong when he arrived at N's house and they told him they hadn't heard from Dylan all day?
MOO

 

[MamaJoJo]

This map is incorrect. MR's home is on the north side of the lake at 2343 CR 500.

 

[jjenny]

In the latest interview, MR claims that there were issues with communicating between Marshal's office (where he went) and sheriff's office (where ER called).
So presumably he reported Dylan missing to Marshals office earlier than 6 pm.

 

[Seajay]

Seajay, I get that. How does one go from a jerk to this? I struggled with it for days, literally vomitting. It's not something you want to think, you try to think everything but that. The reason I came here is because I wanted to be proven wrong and I still do. Everything and anything that anyone might say about me, it's not something I didn't say to myself. It's not easy, never claimed for it to be and I know you aren't saying it is. It's a torment that I can't describe or even begin to put in words. When you honestly have to say those words to someone. I can write them, it's easy because there is no way of knowing how long it has taken me to write them. But I choke each time, I dance each time, and each time those words are said, I cry. I know MR and as much as anyone may believe that it was years ago, he hasn't changed. I have sat here and predicted with 100% accuracy what he would say and do. Yes, there are things that I have since heard that have shocked me, but what not in a good way. His actions then are exactly the same as they are now.
I, of all the people in the world, do not want to know that I could have married someone that is capable of harming a child. I don't want my kids to know that the are a product of that. If I could tell you the talks that we have had, they would tear your heart apart. We DON'T want to believe it, we DON'T want to think it and we absolutely DON'T want to live it. But we are. I don't remember the last conversation my children had with me where we didn't force ourselves to NOT discuss Dylan or MR. I find it hard to even say or type his name, that's how hard it is.
How someone can go from A to B is beyond my scope of understanding and acceptance. It does seem more and more that it is our reality. I was not easy or made lightly.

Thank you for answering.

But what happens if you are wrong??? What happens of in spite of everything you've been through emotionally about this, it turns out he had nothing to do with this?? What happens if Dylan was abducted, if he hitchhiked and got picked up by a perv, if he was confronted by a vicious animal??

Will you feel bad that you thought these things of him? Will your boys feel bad that they thought their father was capable of harming their half brother??

I can't even imagine having to deal with all this, but I can't imagine how I'd feel if everything I thought was wrong in the end.

I'm not being mean or factious or a smarty pants or trying in any way to be unkind. Honestly I'm not and please don't think I am in any way. This is an honest question for you.

 

[NC Analyzer]

In the latest interview, MR claims that there were issues with communicating between Marshal's office (where he went) and sheriff's office (where ER called).
So presumably he reported Dylan missing to Marshals office earlier than 6 pm.

That might be what MR said, but that's not what LE said! I wasn't going to address this issue at all, but I do find it rather perplexing that he is always changing information...even information LE provided.

:moo:

 

[cluciano63]

OT but it seems fairly clear to me that the other Dillon is on an "adventure" and left on his own. Sure, he is a minor and needs to be found,but I do see any similarities at all with Dylan's case.
JMO

 

[azgrandma]

You know, I'd really like to hear that one myself. All I've ever seen is a mom whose heart is broken and she is beyond desperate to find her son. She has worked tirelessly to get the word out about her son, held fund raisers for him, gave interviews to local and national press and participated in searching for him for weeks. The only thing she ever did was say she thought dad was responsible and knows more than he's telling anyone. So what? If I thought my ex did something to my child, I would sure as H be shouting that from the rooftops. I think she has shown considerable restraint considering the circumstances.
JMO

IMO the comments of others are being credited to the mother and I personally don't agree with that. I am no more responsible for what comes out of joe's mouth than joe is responsible for what comes out of my mouth.

I haven't seen or heard anything that is a red flag, I could be wrong and would certainly appreciate knowing or understanding what I am missing. Yes, she accused him one week later, that's the only time I saw anything, IMO it was understandable. Many of MR's comments are discounted due to his lack of education and his inability to speak properly, those are words coming out of his mouth, not somebody elses.

 

[Kamille]

This map is incorrect. MR's home is on the north side of the lake at 2343 CR 500.

The airport is also the La Plata airport and is south of Durango.