CO- Dylan Redwine, 13, Vallecito, 19 November 2012 - #41

[katydid23]

Seems like they were all responses to being pushed by DP on the subject. Anyone being interviewed (as compared with someone making a prepared statement) is just going to answer the questions asked of them by the reporter or host.

Except MR rarely answered the questions being asked of him. He deflected and twisted things and rambled and changed the subject.

 

[catswhiskers]

Nope, it's been that since January. After the "tip" debacle, he increased the privacy settings. :moo:

I feel like I have missed something as I have seen "tip" debacle mentioned a couple of times now. What part of it was a debacle? Didn't LE call for more info based on the same tip? And have since said the person in question has been tracked down and couldn't offer any new info?

 

[Seek&Find]

My DD used to get frustrated about those kinds of rules when she was in high school. But eventually she thanked us. One of her good friends had parents who NEVER checked on her, never asked where she was going or what she was doing. And my DD was smart enough to realize that if something happened to her friend, nobody would notice for a day or two. Your daughter is lucky to have such a caring family.

I worked with at-risk and abused teens for years. Some would be shocked how often I heard kids with no boundaries by parents say they didn't believe their parents loved them because there were no rules. Some actually said they wished their parents would help them make good choices by establishing boundaries.

Moo

 

[NC Analyzer]

My DD used to get frustrated about those kinds of rules when she was in high school. But eventually she thanked us. One of her good friends had parents who NEVER checked on her, never asked where she was going or what she was doing. And my DD was smart enough to realize that if something happened to her friend, nobody would notice for a day or two. Your daughter is lucky to have such a caring family.

My DD, (who will be Sweet 16 tomorrow...Happy, Happy Birthday, Baby!) gets mad at me for telling people what a wonderful, beautiful, smart, kind, loving girl she is! Sometimes you can't win! :great:

 

[Ghostwheel]

And THAT ^^^ is exactly what concerned, loving parents do :rocker:

I'm assuming she is also older than Dylan because she is driving age. Can you imagine trying to "contact" her for 8 hours (7:30 am to 3:30 pm) before you went "looking"?

There is something wrong with that man....:banghead:

Oh, no, that would never happen. Good grief, Grandpa got into the act! But we have rules about leaving info on where you are going to be, contacting people when you get there, and letting someone know if the location you are at changes. It's what we have the stupid cell phones for.

 

[catswhiskers]

If a cell phone is off, there will be no activity on it. The voice mails will still be in the voicemail box, even if the phone is turned off (or even destroyed). Those voicemails can be accessed from any phone as long as the person knows what number to dial and the voicemail password. Not sure about texts-they must be stored somewhere. I know with Verizon, I can get a new phone, type in a code and my phone number and my new phone is now attached to my number. I can then download any text messages that have not already been downloaded. I know this because my old phone just kicked the bucket. For three days I had no phone and people continued to text me. When I got the new phone and transferred my number to it, all my texts from the past three days downloaded to the new phone.

What you lose when your phone dies is only what is downloaded to the phone.

:what: A phone kicked the bucket! I myself have had several phones die unnatural deaths, but I was starting to think others had phones that lived forever.
Just teasing a little Ghostwheel
ETA and should have added not teasing you!

 

[Seajay]

I wasn't aware that no one has seen MR since Dr. Phil. Is that right??? Where did that come from??? Is there a link??? Thanks.

 

[catswhiskers]

Isn't that just so professional? Don't you want to rush right out and hire this person?

Even sillier is that for days I read it as oops I scraped my pants, and couldn't for the life of me work out what it meant. And I do wear reading glasses already

 

[Seajay]

O/T entertaining story. DD was on her second solo outing in the car this evening. She was to text when she arrived at her destination. She did not text in the allotted amount of time. I texted. I phoned. And phoned and phoned. No answer. When she had not been in contact for 30 minutes over the time she was supposed to have texted, I got in the car and headed for where she was (because, oddly enough, I knew where that was). Spousey was elsewhere. 15 minutes after contact, Spousey and Grandpa were in another car, heading the same direction I was. It is about a 30 minute trip. I arrive at the outdoor area she is at (with many friends) just as a text rings. She had gotten lost, then forgot to text. I was within ear shot of her at this time and I just said “A little late with that, are we?” She comes up to me, I stare at her, she apologizes, I stare at her. She says “I should leave now, huh?” to which I reply, “That’s probably a good idea.” I call Grandpa and Spousey and they head back home. I get home, DD gets home. DD apologizes again, says her friends think I am the Devil incarnate because I made her go home, but that she doesn’t think so. She got what she knew would happen, but she did ask "What did you think I was doing? I don't smoke or drink or hang out with creepy guys." I said "I thought you might be broken down on the side of the road or something." She said "Oh. OK. I'm losing some driving privileges, huh?" "Yup." We all sat down and ate ice cream and watched cartoons.

Life is grand.

You sound like me. First thing I would have thought is "accident." Cuz I KNOW if my kid would text me, he/she would have cuz they ALWAYS did what I told them. LOL Not!! I would have been going to where they were also. Making her come home this time will remind her next time she needs to text you and let you know what's going on.

 

[Seajay]

Even sillier is that for days I read it as oops I scraped my pants, and couldn't for the life of me work out what it meant. And I do wear reading glasses already

I read it the same way you did until I saw other people refer to him as crappy pants, then I worked it out. LOL

 

[carole]

I don't know how I am suppose to provide a link to something that is in the possession of DP and his staff. Not everything can be linked, nor does it have to be in all cases. Since I was there, I experienced it and I heard it, it is not hearsay. IMO it is up to each person to either accept or decline.


Hearsay is the legal term for testimony in a court proceeding where the witness does not have direct knowledge of the fact asserted, but knows it only from being told by someone.
Hearsay in United States law - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Azgrandma, I watched both days and heard your and MR's conversation and know what you have stated here is the truth.

It seemed to me that MR was so unemotional about Dylan being missing I would never have known he was the father! If he had at least asked Dr. Phil for some kind of help, information on search organizations, a credible PI, etc. I would have thought so much better of MR. Dr. Phil's organization does give/find kind of this help.

I pray that Dylan will be found soon.

 

[azgrandma]

AzG, do you know if Mark's poly was before or after he met with your son & Cory in Nov?

I'm not sure.

 

[NC Analyzer]

Oh, no, that would never happen. Good grief, Grandpa got into the act! But we have rules about leaving info on where you are going to be, contacting people when you get there, and letting someone know if the location you are at changes. It's what we have the stupid cell phones for.

Good for you! I have always had the same rules for my girl...and I'm truly blessed because she (almost) always follows them. I'm a firm believer in rules that teach and she has always known that every rule I established has been for her safety and protection. She thinks I "love her too much", LOL but she really is my pride and joy and she knows that. :blushing:

 

[catswhiskers]

Ok, I think this is like my third post in websleuths so forgive me if I say something not allowed. One thing has been nagging at me since looking at this case. You guys might have discussed it already, and it may mean nothing, but it looks like Dylan may have created many differen aliases and accounts on Facebook. If you check his friends out, there are several people on his friends list that only have him as friends. This may sound confusing, but there is a Dylan redwine, a Dylan dredwine, a zac Morris and a bunch of others. You can pick them out in the list because they have no profile pic attached and they usually have one or two of the other "aliases" under their friends list. Careful, you may get lost in a loop if you start clicking on friends. I know I did. I am curious, if he did create all of these accounts, for what purpose and have they all been investigated by LE? Just found it strange and thought I would throw it out there.

I know a lot of young people create extra accounts when they are involved in playing games on facebook. It adds to their list of friends who play the same games, and they can help each other out, give each other gifts in the game etc. Or they want an account that only a select few can see for other reasons. Adults tend to do the same thing - and also create alias accounts so they can post anonymously or cause trouble/troll without anyone recognising them. All very sad.
:moo:

 

[i8mypaint]

So I asked a coworker what she thought after watching DP... She said she does agree that there's something not right. She has not really followed the case or anything. To me it was good to get an outsiders point of view. As the old mantra goes in my head "I'm not crazy"

 

[eileenhawkeye]

Ok, I think this is like my third post in websleuths so forgive me if I say something not allowed. One thing has been nagging at me since looking at this case. You guys might have discussed it already, and it may mean nothing, but it looks like Dylan may have created many differen aliases and accounts on Facebook. If you check his friends out, there are several people on his friends list that only have him as friends. This may sound confusing, but there is a Dylan redwine, a Dylan dredwine, a zac Morris and a bunch of others. You can pick them out in the list because they have no profile pic attached and they usually have one or two of the other "aliases" under their friends list. Careful, you may get lost in a loop if you start clicking on friends. I know I did. I am curious, if he did create all of these accounts, for what purpose and have they all been investigated by LE? Just found it strange and thought I would throw it out there.

Zac Morris? Was Dylan a fan of Saved by the Bell?

 

[tiredblondy]

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AzGrandma, you and your son did great on the show. I was impressed because I'd have been super stressed.

 

[cluciano63]

Ugh, it is so sad to look at Dylan's page, all of his fav movies, TV shows listed, etc...

 

[i8mypaint]

AzGrandma, you and your son did great on the show. I was impressed because I'd have been super stressed.

Nevermind

 

[Kamille]

Zac Morris? Was Dylan a fan of Saved by the Bell?

Quite possibly. And the show aired on Nickelodeon until 2004. It now plays on MTV.