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The other thing that sticks out for me with that is, the whole thing of half and step and all that it is a very white-centric view of families. I know this from contact with my late stepfather and his kin, and contact with my mother's best friend. Neither are white, and both have ideas of kinship that are very different to the rigid nuclear model a lot of Western societies are based around. LS's family might perceive their kinship ties in a way that doesn't see step or half as any different to full. Throughout, if I recall correctly, D referred to her as 'my sister' and only talked about the fact that she was a half sibling when the attorneys picked apart the family structure.Does anyone else think that Tolini made an oopsy when he cross examined DL and (inaccurately) described DL as LS's stepbrother. Tolini insinuates that LS has brought shame on DL's family in a small community and it is "all his stepsister's fault". DL corrected him and stated LS was his half sister. Tolini made a point of the fact that they had different dads. It struck me that Tolini was trying to diminish their relationship and I think it probably struck a nasty cord for those who consider their "stepfamily" members as real family. I also think it was super contradictory since we are not supposed to think of LS as the evil stepmom, but as the loving mom who thought of Gannon as her own (retch- it is hard to even type that fiction).
MOO