I don't believe KB sent that text. It is standard for most companies to require a written request - usually with 30 days advance notice unless it's an emergency - which is then approved by a supervisor/manager. I have never heard of texting your employer to tell them you're taking the week off.
MOO
I'm hearing hoofbeats, but I'm not sure I'm not seeing zebras in that pack. Pretty sure there are no unicorns, but there's always the possibility.The FB info has been informative... reading between lots of lines.
I'm not sold on the "quacks like a duck - must be a duck" theory, personally. But, as always... I could be wrong.
JMO
That text to her employer is one of the reasons I am really concerned for her because of the exact reasons you mention.
Most all employers would want a two way conversation about that since it sounds like it was unexpected and not planned in advance.
Not many employers would be ok with an employee just texting them that they are going to be gone a full week and not want at least a two way conversation about it.
In fact I know many employers if they got a text like that and no further word from the employee ever came and there was not breaking news about the person missing then the employer would probably wait a few days and text them back something like this:
"Dont bother coming back."
For 3 weeks and no one has seen or heard from her?It does kinda sound like she decided to clear her head and go off somewhere.
Jmo
I thought it was interesting in the article that it said:
Here it is with the original Frazee family LE informationPF named family in LE was published yesterday afternoon in the Gazzette (CoSprgs since 1872) but by evening, that paragraph was deleted from the online article.
Fiance of missing Kelsey Berreth voluntarily releases cell phone, DNA sample to law enforcement
Leaving freshly-made cinnamon rolls on the stove and for three weeks?It does kinda sound like she decided to clear her head and go off somewhere.
Jmo
I agree. I can’t get past him not reporting her missing, but I also can’t get past an acquaintance, friend, neighbor, or coworker not realizing it.OT...but I live alone, no family in state and just three good friends here...but someone would have reported me missing within a week anyway, if I had not emailed. I just can’t get over a young mother being out of touch for so long with no one freaking out. Anyway...jmo
Agree, it stood out to me as well. Maybe they think she took off on her own or with someone she trusted, and that she is ok? Maybe that's why the Mom is urging people just to share her photo. Maybe those texts were legitimately from Kelsey. Still, all of this is so odd. I just can't picture her leaving a home with a mortgage, her job, her daughter, her cars like this- she seemed like a responsible young lady. Makes you wonder, did he possibly break the engagement that day or said he needed space, and she was very hurt and took off? It could be something simple as that, she could be feeling hurt and alone out there, if they broke up (just speculating, no facts to back this up). I just can't see her making cinnamon rolls, leaving them on the counter, then vanishing after showing she's a responsible and hard working Mom.
Shame on all you bad babies that got this thread shut down!
One thing I enjoy about WS is reading other thoughts and ideas regarding the issue. On this one it is easy to come up with a quick and easy opinion of the guilty party. But even if it is somewhat remote I still like to think outside the box sometimes. I know I have read ideas of if she was gonna leave she would have taken such and such or she wouldn't have baked or left her cinnamon rolls out. But what if she wanted to make it look like she didn't leave. That is just a thought. Or maybe she just wanted to make it look like someone close to her is responsible. It is quite possible she told her mother she was having Thanksgiving with her fiance just to make it look like things were fine in the relationship.
Another thing is the fiance lawyering up. First I have no idea of who he is or anyone related to him or his financial status. But it seems he lives with his mother on a ranch and I can tell you by living not that far away that some of these ranches can be worth tons this day and age. They could be paupers or they could have so much money they don't even know how much they have. Many of these ranches have stayed in the families for generations and it is not uncommon for one of the sons to live their and maintain it after the parents get old as there is a lot of work. But if they are dealing in any chunk of land whatsoever the going prices now are extremely high. And as a rule I thing if you are more on the wealthy side you would tend to lawyer up sooner rather that later. But again, who knows, and no I am not trying to defend him one bit. My first intuition is like so many others however I always like to step back and try to see things in a different light. So what if it isn't your 1st opinion would be your 2nd opinion or 3rd. Just trying to see things through a different perspective and toss different scenarios out there. I guess the biggest reason I like to think of other options is I think that is the best chance we have of finding her okay
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