Yikes, I just went back to thread 19 and read...wow. I am really just disappointed. I don't blame that person at all for not wanting to come back. They weren't allowed, in a kind manner, to even clarify their statements. I can't possibly be the only person who was intimidated when I first arrived at WS; I can't imagine coming on here for the first time and being spoken to in such a manner. That person seemed to have a different perspective and I would have loved to have heard more
A few other thoughts of mine, in no particular order:
- Just because he did this awful thing does not automatically mean he was abusive prior. My son's father hadn't hit either or us prior to his first (and last), and ultimately fatal, attack on my son. He didn't start hitting me until after he'd hurt my baby.
- His disposal method also isn't proof of anything except his disposal method. I'm sure I'm not the only person growing weary of hearing, "but he put his babies in crude oil," so therefore he's clearly capable of like, skinning people alive and wearing their skin. It's heinous, yes, no argument there, but I'm not sure why it's being thrown out as a "be all end all" to every argument/differing idea/thought out there.
And someone came into my office and distracted me and now I lost my train of thought lol. I really wish we had a document dump or something more to discuss at this point.