Definitely. Maybe betrayed is not the best word, I was just thinking of how I'd feel if I had a friend in my house for the night who was crying on my shoulder for a complete, vile, murderous lie.
NuttMegg, sadly I've been there... Is the worst feeling ever: the shock, the betrayal, feeling used and manipulated by someone you knew for decades; while grieving the loss of someone you loved. My heart goes out to The Thayers.