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i have to ask this question: why was she gone 5 weeks from her husband? would you want to be away from your husband for 5 weeks?
I've been married for 15 years. We are often apart on long stretches and it doesn't have anything to do with trouble in the marriage. For instance, we own a vacation house on a southern island. Sometimes my husband, an anthropologist, teaches college courses in the summer. The kids and I often go down and spend 6-8 weeks alone, with him popping in on the weekends sometimes. There are other times in which he is sent on field assignments around the globe. I rarely go with him because the kids can't miss school. He is from another country and there are times in which he has flown back and spent several weeks with his family. I generally do not go.
We are very much in love and we have a strong marriage that has lasted through many tragedies most couples don't have to face. Being apart is hard sometimes but it has never been a big deal.
Every couple has their own kind of unique relationship. With Bella starting school in August, I can totally see why SW would take them to NC. It was a good chance to spend some extended time with family they probably don't see often. Once your kids start school and get into a bunch of clubs and sports, it becomes much harder to take a lot of time off.