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So if a VI seemed closer to SW you would take that more at value or equal value?
I wouldn't take it as more value necessarily but I would probably be more apt to believe what, for example, a friend of SW says as opposed to say CW's mother or a sibling. I would also say that in regards to a friend of CW opposed to say SW's mother. Of course family members are biased and that's totally fine and expected. I'm not saying anyone is a family member and VI's are anonymous as they should be. I think for most people it's just harder to judge people's words when they don't know who people are no matter what "side" of the story they are on.
ETA: Also wanted to add that it's not just about believing a VI. They have their own impression of a person they know and how well they know them and how deep their feelings for them go. They also may not only go by what they've observed but also what they've been told in regards to another person, which may or may not always be the truth. The bottom line is that we here can choose who and what to believe and we don't all have to agree, just be respectful.
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