Okay so suspending disbelief momentarily for a hypothetical. If IF CW's story were true, should he not be allowed to tell his story simply because SW is now dead? Should he be barred from using his defense because it's distasteful?
If so, why? Should he be expected to "protect" her good name and just take the fall for it all?
Again, suspending disbelief.... Should he not be allowed to tell his story even if it were true?
If his story is true, then his immediate reaction was rage against SW and not thoughts of protecting her from an out-of-character act that was precipitated by him asking for a separation.
I would think that thoughts of trying to save the lives of the children (and Nico) by calling 911 would take precedence over
any other thoughts. We've heard so many examples of that happening in other cases where people didn't care about anyone's reputation, they cared about trying to revive their children.
After calling 911 and seeing his wife, the mother of his children, taken away in handcuffs, or in the back of an ambulance if he'd hurt her in his attempts to subdue her and get her away from the children, then I can imagine that a protective instinct 'might' kick in, and say she died as a result of him subduing her, then maybe he'd really want it put out that she had a psychotic break as a result of his news and this was out of character and he wanted her remembered as a loving wife and mother. Nothing about what he's done, said in media interviews, or said in the parts of confession that are in the affidavit suggests anything like this was happening in his head. And, I would also say that I don't think there's any reason someone ought to feel that protective instinct for the murderer spouse after such a horrific thing...if they did I would try to understand, if they didn't then I wouldn't blame them.
And if CW had called 911 and I'd read this story and he'd never done the media interviews to do fake pleas for his family, my initial feeling would be one of massive sympathy for him. I could easily be hoping for him to not get life imprisonment as a result. But he said in one of the media interviews that his children were his life....once they were dead, what was his life? Sadly, some parents wouldn't be able to care too much about the outcome of a trial after losing the children that were their life...life in prison vs life outside, it might not seem to make a lot of difference to them. I don't think that would be their first thought, though, I think the first thought would be "call 911 fast!" Then, when talking to LE about what happened it would probably enter their head that they might be arrested. I suppose some might think, "no, this is wrong and unfair as I'm telling the truth and even though I failed, I have to organize funerals and all sorts of things that I don't want to do but they have to be done". And some might just allow themselves to be led off and struggle to have the will to fight for themselves. CW doesn't seem to be in either category. Maybe there are other categories, and maybe it's because he killed them all and was only ever thinking about getting away with it.
I'm sorry to reiterate this, but everything he did from the second he decided to not call 911 is indicative to me that he was only ever thinking about how to get away with the murder of his entire nuclear family.