Not directing this at anyone in particular but...
By questioning SW's choice of job, the amount of money she made, the amount of money she spent and then a few comments here and there about CW being under a lot of stress, it seems people are looking for a "reason" he hated her or a reason he went into a rage or a reason he killed her. I'm sorry but it comes across that way. There is no reason. No matter what she did (and she did NOTHING wrong) there's no reason for him murdering her and those precious children and shoving them into holes. People say they want to understand him but I don't think anyone can ever fully understand why a man would do this and even if he told us the exact reason and passed a polygraph to prove his "reason" was true, does it matter? There's nothing he could say or we could find out that would justify any of this.
An innocent woman was murdered by the man she loved and yet people are still investigating her. I don't get it.