I agree. Imagine how desperate she must have felt, looking at wedding dresses online and her married lover's wife and children were back in town and they were all living in the same house. He was no longer free to see her every night and spend the night at her place anymore.
Wouldn't be surprised if she ramped it up and gave him an ultimatum with a tight deadline, not realizing he would kill his pregnant wife and children, That ultimatum may be one of the big reasons she didn't want LE to see the text messages, because the timing might have made it look as if she was involved. JMO.
He didn't even tell her that SW was out of town before their date on Sat night. She seemed very surprised to hear that he needed a babysitter, and that the babysitter could not stay all night. She was plenty annoyed that he seemed to be cooling on her apartment selection, he said he had found one for only $1,100 per month which was less expensive than all her choices for him, but he wouldn't tell her where it was. I think her annoyance manifested itself with the insistence on leaving one restaurant to go to another, just to lead him around by the nose a little. This was not some Michelin dining experience to savor, it was a power play to switch sports bar hangouts. She said earlier that sometimes she paid on their dates, I think by the end of that pleasant dining experience she had him in such a browbeaten tizzy that he had to use the CC instead of asking her for a dutch date.
Then the long discussions on Sunday night, ending just a couple of hours before he murdered the family.
Agreed that the perfect storm arose when she returned from NC, no divorce in sight, no separation in sight, and then, my oh my, a babysitter for a 5 hour date is all he could squeeze out on that last weekend even after she had googled some special type of entertainment they could share. IMO, a kind of frantic attempt to keep him interested when it all seemed to be falling apart.
Paraphrased CW said in several ways (emphasizing, IMO) that "If only he had gone with Jeremy to the Broncos game", that indicates the importance of what happened Sat night & Sun night re convos with her.
By that weekend she had surely (IMO) found out SW was pregnant. There were probably some very pointed ultimatums from her, on both Sat night and Sun night.
I re-listened to her meeting with IT and the detectives, the evasion, the outright lying, her telling reference to Verizon allowing "manipulation" of text messages, her lying about telling Charlotte about CW and sending her a photo of him, lie lie lie.
There is just so much missing in her intentions, why insist that he delete FB and then dig in to whether or not he COMPLETELY deleted it? She wanted him to delete his FB, yet never noticed on his wife's very open FB that they were having a baby? In my experience on FB, once a person is searched for, ie Chris Watts, all the other Watts show up right below in a list, no way she could miss SW, even though Watts is a common name. And I think her FB listing would have come right after CW's, because of the algorithms used for pages with similar content and names.
The more I listen to those interviews the more comes to the surface in her evasive, peculiar and dishonest behavior.