when watching her video about her having no friends being sick etc ( this is where some of the borderline stuff came up in my mind)
no judgement just sharing what crossed my mind watching it . That is also where the shades of histrionic stuff came from -- that video
Personality disorders are childhood stuff - no one is to blame.
The word personality describes deeply ingrained patterns of behavior and the manner in which individuals perceive, relate to, and think about themselves and their world. Personality traits are conspicuous features of personality and are not necessarily pathological, although certain styles of personality may cause interpersonal problems.
personality disorder is an enduring pattern of inner experience and behavior that deviates markedly from the expectations of the individual's culture, is pervasive and inflexible, has an onset in adolescence or early adulthood, is stable over time and leads to distress or impairment.
Her social media content IMO sure feels like:
histrionic personality disorder exhibit excessive emotionality—a tendency to regard things in an emotional manner—and are attention seekers. People with this disorder are uncomfortable or feel unappreciated when they are not the center of attention. Behaviors may include constant seeking of approval or attention, self-dramatization, theatricality, and striking self-centeredness or sexual seductiveness in inappropriate situations, including social, occupational, and professional relationships, beyond what is appropriate for the social context. They may be lively and dramatic and initially charm new acquaintances with their enthusiasm, apparent openness, or flirtatiousness.
sobbing uncontrollably over minor setbacks, or having temper tantrums.
the neighbors comment about them constantly being all over each other in public kinda fits this as well.
--seductive or flirtatious behavior
-They may also, however, embarrass friends and acquaintances with excessive public displays of emotion,
Her online presence is certainly dramatic.
self-esteem depends on the approval of others - perfect marriage children home
desire to be noticed,
more common in women
good social skills
She self described this way in that video -
SM - as though performing before an audience,-- for sure
concerned with physical appearance
i had not heard this quote
"You spoil us with love an(d) attention! You put up with 3 impatient, demanding women in the house," she continued. "You work so hard everyday to provide for us. I love you so much."
https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/histrionic-personality-disorder#1
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