BM seems like the type of person who would be very angry if anyone threatened his family. I was surprised to hear him say he thought someone close to Suzanne may have taken her. I wouldn't expect him to be so forgiving. Suzanne may have said things to suggest that sometimes good comes from evil but it doesn't seem like the kind of thing BM, or anyone would say about their missing loved one. He's still holding a grudge over how LE handled the bike on the first day. He has not thanked or even depended on the experts to find his wife.
If he thought an employee or someone who knew Suzanne had taken her and harmed her in any way I would expect him to be enraged and full of revenge. Instead he suggests it's all part of God's plan and in the end one person might be saved? Most people, even the most religious, would question God at a time like this.
Imo