Interesting at least, because my poi also wasn't BM at the beginning. But now, meanwhile, he has done and said so much incomprehensible things and has shown so little mourning, that he IS on my poi list (which honestly has no other pois at this time, only a uncertain feeling, whether there should be more pois on it).
May I ask, if on your poi list is someone, whose life Suzanne would have saved with her disappearing and who is worth it in Suzanne's eyes? May I ask also about "motive", which someone other would have had and Barry has not?
Very interesting post, as always. One starts imagining.
I can imagine one situation when disappearance could be staged, and for a very good reason.
It could happen if Suzanne’s treatment included a bone marrow donor. Or if she saw someone else getting it.
In my life, mostly on the Inet, I have come across people who either were organ donors, or just matched someone unknown, and were eager to save a life. Interestingly, not all of them were educated enough to understand the science behind the procedure, but the desire to save in some people is unbelievably strong, and amazing.
So I think if Suzanne ended up in a situation when her life was saved by such a donor, especially unrelated and unknown one, she would have wanted to help the person, any way she could. Especially if her husband was less involved in treatment than expected.
And given that BM seems to be exceptionally interested in money and probably against any charity, I can imagine a person disappearing willingly and after a while even divorcing in absentia (have seen in IRL, too), and maybe doing what one would deem necessary with one’s portion of the money.
I’d personally go to one of the states where such type of divorce is easy, and stay low there for a while.
But nothing in BM’s behavior after her disappearance indicates this plan being true. Sadly.
However, if SM, indeed, planned to donate, to a person, or a cancer center, this would have been a valid reason to “disappear” her. Think of it. During her treatment, she must have seen and heard stories...and maybe the fallout between the two spouses was solely on her side, because she finally saw him for what he was?
But I don’t think this is the scenario you saw in mind,
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