there is a term in psychology i thinks it's projection. it postulates that what people criticize in others are thing that they can't stand about themselves. i think NP is projecting on GF the issue of draining FD of his money. NP is just "milking" FD so bad that it's a testament to how stupid FD is.
Absolutely!
I do wonder if Atty. P. and Pattisville is in for the long haul?
Will Pattisville stay once the 'green is gone'?
I don't think so!
My guess is that all the folks from Pattisville will run for the hills once the "green is gone" and Fd might ultimately be sharing a table with a Public Defender in the future at trial, if/when further charges are made in this sad case.
We still don't know how the Fd are being paid and we still don't know if Atty P and Pattisville are being paid by the State of CT to defend Fd. We know the Fd 401K was used initially but at the rate the atty's no doubt have been billing, its unlikely much, if any of that is left.
So, who is funding this Fd defense and WHY are they doing it? Is the person/people funding the Fd defense perhaps involved in some business or other activities of Fd/FORE that we have yet to hear about?
IDK but the overall financial picture seen in Family Court and Civil Court for Fd and FORE has made little to no sense?
We also don't know how much money Fd managed to take from JFd personally. All we know is that we saw evidence of her paying for 'babysitting' and childcare and schooling.
We also don't know how much money from FORE made it to the GREEK FAMILY?
We don't know who the GREEK BENEFACTOR Is (although Civil Court deposition documents state him to be Pfufas I believe from NYC).
I'd really like to know if over the course of his relationship with JFd whether FD PAID FOR ANYTHING REGARDING THE 5 CHILDREN?
We know Judge Heller labeled Fd a 'deadbeat dad' and Atty Weinstein did a masterful job of unmasking the lies and shaded truths of Fd in the Civil Case on matters related to $$$.
I don't know if I'm the only one who is disgusted by Fd ongoing claims of 'loving his children' every time he sees a camera? It just seems that at the most rock bottom bare bones definition of being a responsible parent is taking care of the essential shelter and maintenance of your children. FD SINCE 2017 HASN'T DONE THIS per Judge Hellers order. I personally have grave doubts whether FD ever was a financially responsible parent to his 5 children but that is speculation on my part based on reading the Family Court documents as it seemed Fd simply used JFd as his personal piggy bank, gave JFd primary caregiving responsibilities and then he hit the road to ski and party and carry on his affair with MT since 2015 (with other affairs prior to this according to the NYP interviews with friends).
Fathers rights as a topic is important IMO and the fathers in CT have worked long and hard to be heard. I do very much hope that these groups continue to distance themselves from Fd as his issues have zero in common with the many fathers that deserve to be with their children and due to the courts are not able.
I keep trying to find the precise word to describe Fd in the context of his role as father to the 5 Dulos children and today and after reading all the final motions in the Civil Case all I can come up with sperm donor. Nothing in the Family Court documents leads to a possible conclusion that Fd was an involved, caring, loving or present parent ever to any of his children. I kept looking for some evidence of caring or presence from Fd regarding the children but I simply never found it in the Family Court documents. Perhaps Fd is simply incapable of caring or loving his children? Perhaps Fd was simply transfixed by the money and at some point relationships and people and children simply became irrelevant and unimportant?
IDK but I do feel profoundly sad for the 5 children who drew the Fd as 'father' card as IMO that card really is just like a 'joker' card in a game where the 'joker' cards gets tossed out as they have no use in the game. Fd based on everything I've read in the Family Court documents simply added zero value to his children's lives and he actually took it one step further to become a 'negative' and 'dangerous' factor in the lives of the children (particularly older son) such that his contact was removed for a long time and when it was restored was strictly supervised.
Its hard to actually write all this out as the images of the misery that Fd reigned down upon JFd and the 5 children just become all the more real. IMO things might have been so much better if Fd had simply 'manned up' in 2010 when he said he was done with the relationship and 'go his own way'. Instead of doing this, he inflicted untold pain on JFd and his children for 9 additional years and was nowhere near getting on with his own life at the time that JFd went missing. Entire situation is tragic on so many levels and its made so much worse as the 5 children will be without their mother during this holiday season.
MOO